Vicki --
I was thinking about the girls' trip to Japan. I grew up there (well, ages 3-9, so it was pretty formative). I was going to save that as my "thing no one knows about you" for the Pixie Dust site, but since your girls are leaving tomorrow, I thought I would mention a few things.
1) They need to realize that some things (lots of things) get lost in the translation. Think about how we think some of the things Rosiejo says are hilarious because we don't use those expressions, but we're both speaking English!! Now translate that into another language and culture. The girls are going to see things on people's t-shirts and window signs that make no sense in English. For instance, when a childhood friend of mine went for a visit a few years ago, she saw a shirt that said "Viagra -- the opiate of a new generation." There are so many hilarious parts of that statement, I don't even know where to start. My friend kept a journal of all the sayings and things she saw, and we had tears streaming down our faces reading it when she returned.
To see what I mean, check out
www.engrish.com. Click
here to see what I mean. Clothes, food and store signs are the most hilarious.
2) The girls need to realize Japan is a totally different culture. By that I mean they aren't a Judeo-Christian culture. I'm not saying that is good, bad or indifferent, it just is. They should go visit some of the shrines while they are there.
3) They are going in June. There is a reason all the ex-patriates leave Japan the day after school gets out and return mere days before school starts again. It is hot and sticky. Hot and sticky like none of us in the US can imagine. From the photos I've seen, Main Street at Tokyo
Disneyland has an overhang to protect people from the sun, rain and snow in the winter. Hats and sunscreen are a must.
4) It is crowded. Again, crowded like we could never imagine. My mother was not claustrophobic before we moved to Japan. But she has been knocked over and trampled on by more than one crowd pushing its way off the subway. They had people whose job it was to push and pack as many people into the subway car as possible. The girls should find out when rush hour is on the subway, and avoid it. In non-rush hour, the subway is great.
5) Hopefully some things, like people going potty on the street, have ceased since the 70s when I was there. We think of the 70s as contemporary times, but my mom used to go out to the country with her ikebana teacher (flower arranging) and she would meet people who had never seen an American woman before. She was proposed to on the spot on more than one occasion.
6) Since Americans travel all over the world these days, hopefully the girls will not experience what I did as a child which is having people pet me on the street as I passed. They would comment how cute I was, and pet my blonde hair, touch my fair skin, etc. I used to literally crawl up the front of my mom's clothes to get away from them (funny that I'm not big on people touching my face unless they've just washed their hands).
7) The Japanese know more than a thing or two about making high quality umbrellas. The girls will see what I mean. They make beautiful, really sturdy umbrellas. Heck, they have to stand up to those typhoons! There are the walking stick kind, various sizes of fold up, etc. Have the girls bring those back as gifts. It's called omiyagi (I hope I spelled that right), which means that when someone goes on a trip, they bring presents home to the people they left behind.
Thus concludes my Japanese lesson for the day. The girls are going to have a wonderful trip!! I think I turned out a better person for having spent years of my childhood in another country (coming back to the US was no bowl of cherries as I assimilated back into US culture, but that's another story). The girls are going to have their eyes opened to a whole other culture and way of life, and that is always a good thing.
Can't wait to see the photos when they return!!
Jennifer
P.S. Where do DSIL's kids go to school? I went to Sacred Heart (for girls).