I just told DH about the flights and now he is mad. I knew he would be.
He infuriates me with this. He says if he can't get one of the weeks we want that maybe he can trade, then he REFUSES to actually ask anyone to trade with him. He says one day that most of those guys don't plan their vacations ahead of time, then he turns around the next day and says "Other people have kids! Their kids are in school, too, and they bid for their weeks on purpose!" Well, WHICH is it?
I know changing positions means he is bidding against a whole new set of guys and he has no idea where he is as far as seniority. Now he is saying he might end up with BOTH of his vacation weeks being during school and it is what it is. Excuse me? Is vacationing with DS not important enough to DH for him to be a little assertive? If he can't get a week in August he needs to tell the business manager that he won't be able to have ANY vacation time in 2008 with his family, and he needs to see if she can make some sort of arrangements for him. If she can't then he needs to ask whoever has those weeks if they will trade. Not rocket science. And this far in advance I can't see it being THAT much of a hardship, but who knows. The first year he bid he got his SIXTH choice. I don't even know what our 6th choice would be for 2008.
Now I am mad that he is being so complacent and "woe is me" about the whole thing. As soon as DS's miles are credited I am booking us for Aug. 1-17 and DH can come with us or not. I am not going to beg and plead and argue with him if he is already resigned to the fact that he won't be able to get any time off. I am sick and tired of this.