Hope everyone is having a great night....I'm not.
Grandma went at it again.....about Abi and her sneezing...there is no talking to her.

But I had an epiphany at the table....while I was trying to talk sensible to Grandma and she was so disrepectful to ALL of us...my Grandpa just sat there...didn't tell her to be more respectful (I would expect that from Jim...even if he agreed with me, if I was as disrespectful as she was I would want him to call me on it). That wasn't my epiphany...it was that he's done that as long as I can remember...
I realized that I lost all respect for BOTH of my grandparents tonight...and I doubt it will ever come back.
We got credit cards a couple of weeks ago....and I almost impulsively want to max them out and just leave..the thing is finding a place with the space we need.
Sorry I just needed to get that off my chest.....I am still upset almost 2 hours later.