i think I'm going to write my two older kids checks and give them a few small gifties to open. They're both pretty poor right now--DD is in college and DS is out of work. Dead presidents are one-size-fits-all
Christian is the one i like shopping for. Well, not exactly *him*. Christian is very mentally handicapped and one day is just like another. As long as there's food, he's in. He doesn't play with toys, just a couple little baby things and he resists new toys. So we pretty much buy him some jammies, an outfit or two and some pudding cups or peanut butter crackers. But, instead of buying *him* a lot of stuff, which he could care less about(seriously, just give him a box of tissue paper and he's happy!) we pick a child from the Giving Tree and buy them some things. We buy a few books for his classroom, too.