That's tough....but I would say Value with Deluxe Dining.
WYR go to Disney on Christmas Day or New Year's Eve night
Night Time Spectaculars.
WYR skip a year/have to wait another year for a WDW trip, OR go this year, but have to go with (and stay with!) people you don't want to be with....
SKIP! Its all about who you're with. Sure you aren't in the room long but if you don't like who's there it can be hard to get in the right frame of mind. Trust me, I know from experience.
WYR have horrible meals EVERYWHERE you ate but be at the front of every ride or great, AMAZING food but wait in hour long lines everywhere, regardless of fastpass?
Amazing food but long lines, I guess.
WYR win a night in the Castle Suite or win free deluxe dining?
The skunk smell, I guess?
WYR: Go to MK on your first or last day?
First I guess, but we begin and end our trips with MK.
WYR: See more characters or go to more attractions/rides?
Space Mountain especially in the queue area listening to the music over and over again
WYR do a Disney Cruise or do Adventures by Disney
Adventures.
WYR: Have Signature Dining or Character Dining?