Figment1990 -

You are asking your question on the GF FAQ, so I have a feeling that you are gonna get a pretty one-sided response.

But I'll see if I can help!
We much prefer the GF over the BC, as we like the overall ambiance and facilities better. The number of shops and restaurants on property, the proximity to the MK, the transportation options, the look and feel of the resort. That being said, if you spend more of your time in the Epcot/MGM area, the BC might be a better choice for you, especially if you've wanted to stay there. I'm a little confused, you seem to be worried about your son at the SAB pool - but you aren't taking him this trip? Did I misunderstand?
If you are not taking your son this trip, you may want to choose the BC, for the access to the Boardwalk and other late night activities in that area. Having to travel to and from that area can really eat into your day, especially if it's a quick weekend trip. And if you don't like the atmosphere at SAB, you could always go to the quiet pool.
A good compromise might be the YC, have you considered that resort?
I would always choose the GF; I'm simply trying to think what would make
you the happiest for this trip!
Good luck with your choice, and have a wonderful vacation.