well, most who drive due to cost sort have "bummer" outlook to start with. Here's the thing, you can't beat the "get there now" part of flying so don't even add that into the equation. I think if you can focus on the parts of driving that are positives for you, it will be fine. Indy is not a bad drive at all, we are 19-20 hours out ( Naperville) and from our own experience if we were 15 out, I doubt we would ever fly, and that includes trips we have to make to Sarasota for our DD's college. So, if you like to be able to pack things to your preference, not divided up like on the airlines, like having your own car on vacation, like having flexibility (especially without penalty fees if you want to change your travel dates). Travel in general, requires one to have a patient mind and to be ready for the "what if's"...I had connecting flights to/from Ft Myers in Jan Feb for my fathers funeral...all 4 flights had issues from inoperable exit door, late crew, flat tire and weather delay..and I flew 2 airlines, SW and Airtran...both of which I am on a lot from Chicago/Fl. Each day of travel delay added a 6+ hours to my time, which can happen driving as well, so just roll with it, enjoy that you are going on vacation and really, until you try driving for yourself, it will be hard to say which you prefer. You may like traveling both ways like we do!