Thanks to all who have answered so far. I still want to know more! I am disappointed that everything seems to have an additional fee, as the 2 that may join us will be on a very tight budget. This may be their only chance to ever go to WDW. If you could only do ONE of the Grand Gathering special events...which would it be? Would you do a Grand Gathering again?
We did a GG in 2006 with 12 people. It was my parents, my bro and his family (DH/DW, DS4 DS2), my family (DH/DW DS12, DD8), my younger bro and his wife (no kids). We did not all stay together, but we did meet for one table service meal a day.
We did all 4 of the GG Experiences. We loved the Safari, it was great! (My dad was not impressed with the food...he is a "meat and potatoes" kind of guy and the food was out of his comfort zone. The rest of us loved it!)
The most economical GG experience is the Fireworks Cruise. It was cute and campy, but not great. It was a dessert buffet and then a cruise around the lake with corny jokes and good fun.
We are doing a GG again this year with 14.5 people...same crew plus 10 month old twins (younger brother's new babies!) and older bother has one on the way!
We wanted to sign-up for the Safari and the breakfast, but we have not been able to get reservations for those events...that is a WHOLE other story!
We have some "ground rules" when traveling together...
- No griping if you did not take the time to help plan.
- If you are late, we are not waiting on you and you do not get to be mad about it!
- If someone stops to go the bathroom, then everyone has to go...even the grown-ups! (Otherwise you are waiting in the bathroom line all day!)
- Don't expect to spend all day together in the parks and no one is allowed to have their feelings hurt if your family needs some alone/down time.
We do stay on property. We also make a point to request connecting rooms so that when the couples with young kids go back to the resort, they can use the other families' rooms to move around/watch TV without disturbing the napping babies/kiddos.
It has worked well for us. We are going back and doing it again!!!
Out of everything, taking account trying to be economical...I would recommend the breakfast at Tony's. They will give you a fast pass for Phillharmagic and that is lots of fun for a big group! If money is not a factor...I would go for the Safari!
Of course, the Hoop Dee Do Review was a lot of fun for our group too!