flipflopmom
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Write those two things down, memorize them, and repeat as necessary!So what have I learned--that I can keep going through the hard times. I don't have to be perfect, just keep moving forward. Eating crappy food does not make me feel better, it just makes me feel crappy. And as much as I have been having to DRAG myself to the Y, I always feel better after I workout. I am very grateful to be here and to have my health and that my family is healthy.![]()
That's an important lesson to learn. As for helping your sister, it's WONDERFUL of you to support her. Try your hardest not to let the anxiety creep into your food choices, and exercise to help clear it away!That I drink and eat way too many empty calories. I think one of the things that drags me down is that my sister is going through a tough time and it is anxiety filled which is not HELPING me. However I have to give her support at this time in her life. She needs it badly.
Good job on finding what you enjoy, and a plan that you can stick with for a lifetime!I cutting back on the carbs, wine
and portion sizes, my Jazzercise classes have been enough!
And those I enjoy!!
AWESOME STATEMENT!!!!My goal doesn't have to be to look like I did in a bikini when I was 20, just to be the best version of me I can be now
Welcome! There's plenty to comment on here, so hop on!I am new to the team! I usually am just a reader, but I have to get my # of posts up so I can send a PM!
That, in the end, is what keeps you where you need to be!What I have learned is that I can make the better choices. I can stick to the plan.
GREAT perspective! You will get there, it is a lifestyle! Good insight!If I can learn to make good choices most days - then the days when someone offers me pie for dessert, or we go out to eat, I can go ahead and enjoy that because a treat once in a while isn't how I gained weight - it was every day decisions that got me here.
I'm going to have to check that out, I would like to see the goal estimator portion especially. Get that ceiling painted so you can enjoy the rest of your day!My cousin found this from a friend of hers on facebook. http://www.myfitnesspal.com. What I really liked about it was a estimate of what I would weigh in 5 weeks if I kept eating and exercising as I did yesterday..I could actually reach my goal. Now, I need to paint the ceiling in my kitchen...I have been putting it off for a few hours now, I even vacuumed to get out of doing it. Talk about procrastination!
You are being very successful with that attitude! KEEP IT UP! Not only have you committed yourself, you've made a committment to yourself and your family! Great job!But, I have learned that if I truly commit myself, I can make it happen. And more importantly, I don't miss those things that I thought I loved. If I can do this, I can do anything.
Listen to this man! He's been VERY SUCCESSFUL!!!!!1. I am not the only one with this situation (no brainer, but sometimes you feel like you ar alone)
2. I do not have to "stuff" myself to feel satisfied.
3. Working out makes you feel good about yourself.
4. Good teammates make for light work.
The hard part about making time for yourself is that when you get some "free time" there are usually 100 things you need to accomplish, or you are too tired to accomplish anything!!!! Give yourself a little slack, you definitely want to be able to do this for the long haul. Our bodies to respond slower after a trauma, I think they are scared of what's coming next. And no, you do NOT have to go it alone. We're here, every step of the way!1) My body doesn't respond as quickly as it did right after surgery
2) Making time for me is harder than I thought it would be.
3) I don't have to do it alone.
How are the weigh in's going? Do you want to bury yourself in a snowdrift or ski down a mountain? No matter which one, dig out, and get going. New day, new week, new choices!