HomeschoolMama
I raise kids... What's your super power?
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Oh no, Mel.How is everybody? Well, I survived the gym. Did 15 mins on the bike, and then tried the Elliptical machines with SD. HOLY CROW! Those things are HARD! I burnt more calories on that in 3 mins than 10 on the bike! I am psyched to go back and do it again~
Unfortunately, that's where my good day ended.![]()
We sprung Gus from childcare, which he was totally ok with! Yay! And then we all went to change for the pool, which I had promised Gus! So, we change our clothes and SD informs me that he's not swimming. WHY did you change????? Anyway, then we did the swimming thing. With SD NOT participating which is fine with me really. I totally didn't care.![]()
We leave the pool and we're changing back into warm clothes and SD says, "We're going to lunch right?" I said, "NO. I told you the other day that I will NOT BE buying lunch every day we're at the gym. First, it defeats the purpose for me, which is to LOSE weight. Second, it is EXPENSIVE." The gym membership alone is expensive. This is not a hard concept for an almost 16 yr old to grasp. Right?
So, he tells me that he hates me for being so cheap and that he's not coming anymore.
So, before you guys all roll your eyes at me for having a teenager that would DARE to speak to me like that and get away with it. I don't. He is a GREAT kid. He (and Gus) have NEVER spoken to me that way. I did NOT raise them to be brats. They're very well behaved. I was SOOOOOO shocked. I said, "So, you hate me?" He said, "Yeah, right now I do." I said, "I'm sorry you feel that way."
I wish I knew what the deal was today. I wanted to just shut him out and not get into it but I couldn't let it lie. I asked him if he thought that he had a rough life? I informed him that in 2 VERY SHORT years he will be able to pay his OWN bills and he'll find it difficult to maintain the lifestyle he's accustomed to here! Oh well. It was awful anyway. I did tell him that I'd be talking to Bob about what he said to me.
Bob sent him to his room, which is maybe the second time in his WHOLE life that we've done that! He was there all day, until dinner. Then he apologized to me, and said he was just angry and he really did love me. Gosh, teenagers are so hard to figure out.
He could have told me just about anything ELSE and I'd have understood it. But, hate me? That was just weird.![]()
He seems to be over it now. I guess he was just having a moment. BUT, it didn't exactly make my day.
Sorry to blab on and on. It was traumatic.![]()
MEL




I'm glad he apologized.