jillbur
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Probably my number one supporters have been my Mom and DD. My Mom has been a great sounding board.... especially back in the more difficult times when DH was NOT trying to lose weight and I was constantly surrounded by the junk he would want to eat.... daily batches of stove-top popcorn with plenty of real butter, ice cream, etc.
Now that DH is eating much healthier, life is definitely easier when it comes to food choices and avoiding the junk.
DD has always been a great cheerleader for me.She has left me notes on the scale on days when she knows I might be facing a challenging weigh-in. She often reminds me not to be frustrated and to look at how far I"ve come, versus how much I have left to go. Plus her amazing energy level when it comes to swim makes me feel like a slacker if I don't get in at least a MINIMAL amount of daily exercise. If she can swim 4 hours a day plus do homework, etc, SURELY I can fit in a measly 30-60 minutes!
DS isn't a HUGE supporter, but he is helpful in little ways. If it is evening and I am relaxing, he will often ask if I would like a cup of tea while we watch television. And knowing that I am trying to set a healthy eating example for him, helps keep me on track a great deal of the time.
But honestly, for the past few years, my BIGGEST form of support has come from this group!! I've met some amazing people IRL and made some great "virtual" friends here! And even the newbies are an encouragement to me! I LOVE this group!! I thank GOD every day that I have you all to talk.
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Good Sunday morning!
Sorry I wasn't feeling chatty yesterday. Having some drama with DD and it is really bringing me down. I'll try to share it briefly.
First, let me start by saying that you have a wonderful support group!
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Have fun at the party. I love Panera, and they do have a lot of good healthy choices too.
My sil Beth and brother Jim are definitely my biggest supporters. She came to disney with me for my half marathon last year, and watched michael for me, and through the years we've shared our ups and downs with weight, weight watchere, and when there is a family party and we're on track, if they are there I know we'll have some healthy options. She and I have also shared our clothes as our weight has gone down, and unforutnately up, we've traded back and forth. We do a lot of travelling with them because my niece is the same age as ds, so we are very close. Love them.
Thanks!
That is so awesome that SIL came with you to the half marathon! She sounds like a great support and it sure helps that you can exchange clothes! It probably makes it a lot easier at family function, too. Sometimes, like my parties today, I feel like the only one caring that I don't want to shove a piece of cake down my throat. Glad you have people to share with!
Getting a bit frustrated. I have been bouncing around 166-167lbs for more then the past week! So discouraging. I haven't changed how much I am eating. I track with My Fitness Pal.
Any suggestions?
Hmmmm...maybe try switching up your exercise? I am trying yoga and spinning one day each and I am seeing a difference. Also, when I go running, I try my usual route in reverse or try a whole new route so I don't get in a funk. Some days, I also may purposely eat a little more (healthy) calories just to give my body a change. Sorry I'm not more help. Maybe someone else will have better suggestions? Good luck! I've been there and it's frustrating. Just don't give up!!
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Well, I am off to my sister's house and then MILs. I will check in later!
Jill