Regardless of whether it's vacation or not, the state says WE MUST teach the kids certain things in the course of our class. We don't have the luxury of just excusing students from certain lessons. For example, a student might miss the week when I teach poetry terms; those terms are still going to show up on the end-of-course test -- I can't say, "Oh, just skip those questions. The state won't care!"One, it a vacation. Regardless of the fact that it's during school time, it's still special time with family.
I'm sure elementary school is different, but the habits they learn there will carry over to high school. If the kids learn in elementary school that it's okay to just "blow off" a week or two, that habit will hurt them once they reach high school. They really DO need to make up everything the other kids did in class that week. Taking a child out of school SHOULD mean making a commitment to help him keep current with whatever he's missed, but most parents don't see that as their job -- they figure the teacher will help the child catch up.
You're right, it's not fair, but our job doesn't end at 2:30. We already spend lots of time after school providing extra help to students -- those who've been out sick, those who just didn't quite get it in the first place -- but it is VERY frustrating for teachers to see families CHOOSE to take their kids out, then expect us to give up our own time to help those kids catch up. And, oh, parents DO expect us to give up our own time for this purpose.Lastly, I don't really think it's fair to ask a teacher to do a lot of extra work for a student who has a family choosing to remove them from school.