We live in a suburb of Chicago and also use Everyday Math. My son is in 2nd grade and it is, in my opinion, a very weak program. I was a former teacher, and got very concerned when I was having to teach my son how to do his "Home Link" every night. This was in addition to the flashcards that we were doing because I had been warned that the program was weak on basic skills.
I wrote a letter to the local paper and several other parents responded with similar concerns. Our school had a meeting with the principal, the director of curriculum and the math curriculum director. They, for the most part, patted us on the head and said that they knew best. Until many of us spoke up as former teachers, that is. Then they realized that we had been there and would not be intimidated by their "teacher speak". (Again, I was a teacher, and I don't mean all do this, but some, especially those in higher position, do try to intimidate).
The end result is, this program will be kept at least until it is up for review. It is a very expensive program, and our district has spent too much money on it to just throw it away. The math director was very defensive and could not see any problems with the curriculum. The director of curriculum finally admitted that she had been on the committe that had chosen the curriculum 7 years prior, and that it was "the best at the time".
I have since seen my son's teacher begin to supplement more with the "basics". I have volunteered to be on the committee to chose the new curriculum in 2007 (although I'm not sure if they'll call me as I am now kind of labeled a "troublemaker"). I have had many people thank me for the letter I wrote, as they felt alone in their dislike of the program.
Talk to some of the other parents, and do your research. Start with the internet. I'm not being allowed to post the URL, but there are several good sites that deal with this programs shortcomings. Maybe you can help change the way it is being taught, if not the actual program being used. Good luck!
