It's up to you and your husband what you want to do. I have been married 56 years and still have my original rings. They consist of a plain gold band and an engagement with a solitaire diamond. My husband suggested I might want to have my rings "upgraded" but I definitely did not want that. We had my rings soldered together and he bought me a beautiful anniversary ring. I put it on first then my other rings with the wedding band next to the anniversary ring and then the engagement ring. I think it looks good and I have a lot of people commenting on it.