Hi girls and boys!! Good to see all your plans are progressing nicely!!
Kristi - It all depends on what is important to you and what you really want out of your big day. For me, the important things for our VR (apart, of course, from re-newing our commitmant to each other) was photography, flowers and music. For others it may be, for example, a party with DJ and dancing or having a horse and carriage. We are all different with different dreams about our perfect day. You must stick with what is important to you. That said, it is difficult to imagine a ceremony with no music at all, but perhaps your planner can arrange an i-pod set up so as you can bring your own recorded music. I don't know if this is possible at S/D as I never explored this option, but I know some DFTW brides have done it. It may be a cheaper option if it is possible
irishthemeparkfan - Are you Irish? Where are you from? I meant to ask you this before and forgot!!!
Believe me, I am not as organized as you think!! Sometimes when I think of all the things I still need to do, I go into a real panic!! I am currently working on the official invitations, information booklets and the rest of the labels for the welcome bag contents. I still need to buy DD (aged 11)'s suit, the men's ties, favour boxes..... the list just goes on and on

I suppose I have everything booked that needs booking and this is a weight off my mind!!!
Good luck, and be sure to keep us posted.
bellaminnie - Hi and welcome to our small (but extremely distinguished) group of S/D brides and grooms!!!
Your plans sound lovely!!! Timings are always a bit of a dilemma!!!
I think if I were you (and this is just my humble opinion), I would let go of the idea of the lighted gazeebo and have a late afternoon ceremony. This would mean that you could have some pictures at the Boardwalk afterwards in daylight, and some when all the lights are on. The Boardwalk looks beautiful with all the lights on and with the reflections of them in the water!!!
Where is your reception/meal? Would you want pictures taken there too? If so, you will need to consider timings for them too. Evening ceremonies are so beautiful, but do have an impact on the style of your photographs.
Good luck with all your planning and be sure to keep us all posted. When in May is your big day? There are a few of us with weddings/VRs in May!!
If you have any questions, or can help in any way, please don't hesitate to ask. We are a friendly bunch and will be honoured to help!!!