Survival skills

KAMommy

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Okay, I have been feeling guilty about something for years and I have to get this off my chest...

At two, my son knew what drive thru's were for. I would pull up at a window and he would start ordering from his car seat in the back. "Cheeseburger, fries, DONUT". (We had a Krispy Kreme a few miles from the house :thumbsup2 ).

Anyway, I have been comparing myself and my child rearing escapades to my own childhood for a while now. You see, I lived on a small farm. There were no drive thru's close by. Eating out was a REAL treat. I learned early on how to plant, nuture, harvest, and preserve my own veggies. I have spent many an uncomfortable hour picking blackberries (which only grow in WEEDS). I even raised calves on the bottle...and promptly ate them later! In short, I was a farm girl and I was taught survival skills.

So now I feel guilty. My kids think the farm at their grandparents is just a place to play. They wouldn't know a hoe if they dropped one on their toe. But, they know the menus of most fast food places by heart, and they can tell you which local restaurants have the best play places, burgers, etc.

But I have decided to no longer feel guilty. You see, I was raised on a farm and needed to know those farmishy kind of things. My kids are in town, and I figure I am just teaching them modern, URBAN survival skills.

Right????
 
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I am in the opposite boat, kind of. For the most part, I was raised in a large city. I am now raising my kids in a very rural area...my husband thinks the drive thru at McDonald's is a treat! I admit, I sometimes take the shortcuts, but it is good too...no reason to feel guilty.

To give you a little taste of my world, my dh's aunts were arguing at Thanksgiving whether it was taking a 'city' shortcut to use pancake mix! One aunt insisted that it was better to use eggs, flour, etc b/c the mix was too expensive! I am like...umm, it is like $1.49 for a giant box of bisquick :confused3
 
I'm kinda in the middle here! My great-grandparents still have a cattle farm, and when I was younger, my sis and I would spend a week or two at a time there, and we learned so much!! I think it's great to learn these things and appreciate them, even if you have no intentions of going and living on a farm. Then, I went away to college, and met my now dh- lived in a cramped little apartment. NOW- we bought our own house, no neighbors, and I have TONS of blackberries all over my back yard!! Without my time at Mamaw and Papaw's house, I wouldn't know how to pick the stupid things (OUCH) and make a DARN good blackberry cobbler.

That aside, we still do things the "city" way- with Bisquick and drive-thru's fairly often!!
 
My DH grew up on a farm. My inlaws watched my two kids prior to starting school while we worked. So my oldest has spent every summer on the farm when school is out. She is in 5th grade now. I'm not saying she does farm work all summer but she loves being there. Inlaws have a pool and she she swims almost every day. Right now she is hand feeding a calf for my BIL. She is an animal lover and I think the farm has been good for her. My little one is 2 1/2 and helps her grandmother collect the eggs and feed the geese, etc. They get to experience alot of stuff I never got to as a child.
 

I grew up on a Dairy Farm...hated it then, but wish I was there now. I wish my kids could grow up the way I did...getting up early...working hard...going to bed exhausted!!
I fed calves with a bottle, threw hay from the loft in the barn, and used a pitchfork so shovel the poop (and no, that's not what we called it!!)...and my kids think they have it bad when I ask them to take turns feeding the d@#^ cat!! Oh, and you can forget about them cleaning the litter box!! (that's gross mom!) (have you ever cleaned a barn stall, or the bedding shed in February??! Give me a break kids!!) :confused3
I would love it if they could spend a summer on the farm with my parents!!
Oh, and my dad had the three of us girls and had more help than my uncles with their 2 and 3 boys!) (man, i'm sitting here remembering baling hay with my peppae driving the tractor and yelling at the boys to try to keep up with me!! lol...i was strong for a girl!) :goodvibes

sorry to get OT...just reminiscing a little.....
 












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