Lcaemom
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It is always hard to find just that right blend for family traditions. Doubly hard when the kids are a bit older. You are doing the right thing in remaining sensitive to their emotional needs during the holidays. It will get progressively easier. I think mostly the older ones just want to know that you aren't expecting to "replace" their missing parent. Good job off treading softly!
You don't have to decide now about the hoppers, you can add them at any time once you get there if necessary. The sooner the better, though. DH and I always get the hoppers for just the reason you indicated. We want to be able to hop if one park gets crowded and we don't necessarily want to stay at the park we have ADRs in. And we have found that hopping does not take up a lot of our time. But it's not for everyone.
It's very exciting to think you may be getting a ring while at Disney!! That certainly would give new meaning the the word Magical!!
We leave in 2 days and I'm so excited! We eat dinner at BOG our first day there and I can't wait to experience that. Hope all your plans continue to come together and that you have a wonderful trip!
You are exactly right about all of them knowing that DBF and I are not trying to replace anyone. This wasn't the first time there has been some sadness or some guilt and I know it won't be the last time. It just seems to strike at very unexpected times...sensitivity is key. They all need to be allowed to feel how they need to feel. It's not easy keeping all of their holiday traditions the same but, for now it is important that we try.
Thank you for your sentiments on the hoppers...I just like having the flexibility to go where we want, when we want. I've been known to let the kids sleep in and just take a quick trip down Main St...stop for coffee, take in the all little details that Main St. offers, SHOP!

Thank you so much for following along! I'm so glad I caught you before you left...you leave TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll keep you all posted about anything sparkly that may come up during our trip!

