Mackenzie Click-Mickelson
Chugging along the path of life
- Joined
- Oct 23, 2015
A gentle correction here I said the opposite. I said I would want it. I said I appreciate it when my husband who had a good relationship with his parents talks to me. I have an experience that he can't relate to but yet he has a different perspective he can offer me. It's a constant feedback over more than 15 years with him, me exchanging information, him exchanging information and us both learning things.Like you said there are things in life you just don't want advice from people that haven't been there...like your relationship with your mom.
Advice from people who steadfastly hold onto ideals that a parent and child(ren) can't have a toxic relationship and make that known are the ones that I bristle at because they have an unwillingness to see when the world isn't roses. I compared that to some people who don't have children who make way out there statement (such as kids shouldn't laugh at a theme park where there are tons of kids also around) because those are so far out there. I don't even know if the OP has kids or not TBH
Natural of course to bond and have comraderies with like people (in this case kids the same age as yours and/or with similar issues) but completely discounting or ignoring someone who doesn't fit into that is a rather limited place to find yourself in.
In any case I'm off to bed and will just leave it at that. I appreciate the conversation and I do understand where you were trying to come from.