Subconcious Crushes.

[ktbutterfly2011]

I'm going to bed now guys but i'll be sure to check this tomorrow before I go to all day practice with him!

 

[Sparkle_Cherry]

...Because I know from experience when you really like someone you'll do anything to make yourself believe that they also like you.

Truer words were never spoken. You're a wise woman Jenny.

Every day I try and make myself believe that my crush likes me. Even when I'm just talking with my friend in class, I'm hoping that he's looking at me, and thinking of me in a way that I doubt he really does.

I love crushes, feeling absolutely smitten really is something beautiful

~Caitlin

 

[Mur13]

Yeah. Alot of people think he isn't. And seriously, I could care less what he looks like.

Off topic, but yea seriously. I hate it, and I think its worse for guys. You get ragged on so hard if your girlfriend might be a little chubby or not as pretty as someone else. But to me, if you like someone, it shouldn't matter.

By the way, that picture in your sig is awesome.

 

[Sparkle_Cherry]

Off topic, but yea seriously. I hate it, and I think its worse for guys. You get ragged on so hard if your girlfriend might be a little chubby or not as pretty as someone else...

Excuse me? I'm sorry, but don't you think it's hard for the girl? If she's the one who's a little chubby, and people are making fun of the guy because he has a chubby girlfriend, they're really making fun of the girl.

You honestly think it's worse for guys? They can walk around all sweaty without wearing deoderant, their hair a complete mess, their clothes baggy as hell, and girls still fawn over them. Girls have to have perfect hair, a nice smell even in gym class, an awesome white smile, glossy lips, gorgeous physique, long eyelashes, big breasts, perfect skin, a 20-inch waist, designer clothes and purses, manicured nails, and moisturized hands... for most guys to even realize they exist!

Actually you're right, guys have it way harder than girls. That's why a huge majority of teens with anorexia nervosa and bulimia are FEMALE!

~Caitlin

P.S. Call me a hypocrite Jenny, because that's what I am. I know that I just attacked him too but I can't help myself. That was too insensitive of a comment for me to react calmly. I'm an admitted hypocrite.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Truer words were never spoken. You're a wise woman Jenny.

Every day I try and make myself believe that my crush likes me. Even when I'm just talking with my friend in class, I'm hoping that he's looking at me, and thinking of me in a way that I doubt he really does.

I love crushes, feeling absolutely smitten really is something beautiful

~Caitlin

Mm yeah. I felt like that a lot last year.
I was kind of worse though, because I hardly knew the guy. Sometimes he was sweet, and funny, but I always thought for some reason he liked me back. And I'm not sure why. It was kind of strange for me, because I had liked this guy since grade 1, and I was devastated when he moved away. And then.. he came back. So I was thinking OMG it's fate. I was sad.

This year.. I like this guy. He's my friend, but nothing more. We're flirting buddies, he's the guy who told a girl he couldn't go out with her becuase he had too much fun flirting with me and my friends. It's sad, but sometimes I think it's better to have him around than to have never had him at all.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Excuse me? I'm sorry, but don't you think it's hard for the girl? If she's the one who's a little chubby, and people are making fun of the guy because he has a chubby girlfriend, they're really making fun of the girl.

You honestly think it's worse for guys? They can walk around all sweaty without wearing deoderant, their hair a complete mess, their clothes baggy as hell, and girls still fawn over them. Girls have to have perfect hair, a nice smell even in gym class, an awesome white smile, glossy lips, gorgeous physique, long eyelashes, big breasts, perfect skin, a 20-inch waist, designer clothes and purses, manicured nails, and moisturized hands... for most guys to even realize they exist!

Actually you're right, guys have it way harder than girls. That's why a huge majority of teens with anorexia nervosa and bulimia are FEMALE!

~Caitlin

P.S. Call me a hypocrite Jenny, because that's what I am. I know that I just attacked him too but I can't help myself. That was too insensitive of a comment for me to react calmly. I'm an admitted hypocrite.

You know what I'm finding more and more?
Guys don't go for well developed girls anymore. They go for the tall, skinny and flat ones that are almost model like.

 

[Sparkle_Cherry]

You know what I'm finding more and more?
Guys don't go for well developed girls anymore. They go for the tall, skinny and flat ones that are almost model like.

Tell that to my J-cup older sister. And no, I'm not exaggerating, that's a real size.

~Caitlin

 

[BeachBabi0]

You know what I'm finding more and more?
Guys don't go for well developed girls anymore. They go for the tall, skinny and flat ones that are almost model like.

ok. im one of the tall skinny girls. and im not sure if im 'well-developed', but i think my mom thinks i am, so i guess it can go both ways. please watch what you post.

and yes, i think its possible to have a subconcious crush on someone, ive had one before on my best guy-friend. but it doesnt seem like your friend has one on you, just from those scenarios. of course, i could be wrong. have a great valentines day!

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Hey guys. I'm not sure what happened but last night the crush was basically flushed out of my body. I got really sad all of a sudden and just sat there and started crying. Before I was crying he was like... "Cheer up." and Right before I started someone said "what's wrong?" I said nothing and he said "Yeah, whats wrong you're usually not like this." And walked away. I cried. Was really sad, went home and went to bed and then woke up thismorning sad. But through the day, I realized I think I don't like him anymore!

This happened once before but who knows!? I'll update you with what I feel tonight if I can if any of you care!

 

[Babyjustrun]

ok. im one of the tall skinny girls. and im not sure if im 'well-developed', but i think my mom thinks i am, so i guess it can go both ways. please watch what you post.

and yes, i think its possible to have a subconcious crush on someone, ive had one before on my best guy-friend. but it doesnt seem like your friend has one on you, just from those scenarios. of course, i could be wrong. have a great valentines day!

I was not saying that tall skinny people are flat.
I was talking about the combination, all three put together.

Around here, bra size matters not. Just whether you're skinny, girly and love basketball.

 

[Mur13]

Excuse me? I'm sorry, but don't you think it's hard for the girl? If she's the one who's a little chubby, and people are making fun of the guy because he has a chubby girlfriend, they're really making fun of the girl.

You honestly think it's worse for guys? They can walk around all sweaty without wearing deoderant, their hair a complete mess, their clothes baggy as hell, and girls still fawn over them. Girls have to have perfect hair, a nice smell even in gym class, an awesome white smile, glossy lips, gorgeous physique, long eyelashes, big breasts, perfect skin, a 20-inch waist, designer clothes and purses, manicured nails, and moisturized hands... for most guys to even realize they exist!

Actually you're right, guys have it way harder than girls. That's why a huge majority of teens with anorexia nervosa and bulimia are FEMALE!

~Caitlin

P.S. Call me a hypocrite Jenny, because that's what I am. I know that I just attacked him too but I can't help myself. That was too insensitive of a comment for me to react calmly. I'm an admitted hypocrite.

nah its cool.

But thats not what I meant.

Girls believe thats what they have to be because thats what they've invented. I like girls of all shapes and sizes, and for me, its more for personality than anything. If I can have a good time with her than I don't care what she looks.

But guys get ragged on plenty if they're girlfriend isn't extremely hot or whatever. Is that right? No, but its the truth. All a guy can do is defend her, in her absence. No they're not making fun of the girl, they're making fun of a guy's inability to attract better looking girls. Mostly because they're ignorant.

Besides, guys have to look a certain way too. Some guys don't care about appearance, but guess what? Those guys are pretty lonely. (MOST) Girls will always go for a guy with good hair, a nice smile and a lot of money. Clothing labels will go a long way for guys, too. But that could just be the southern lifestyle where girls are expected to marry rich.

Yes, it actually pretty insensitive. I'm a pretty cynical, insensitive, apathetic person. Its not good, but I usually tell the truth. Once you get to know me though, I'm an extremely nice person. I will always go out of my way for someone else. But, I'll still say what I think.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I know I'm a wise wise woman!

Anyway, that's weird that that happened Katie. Ummm I'm just not sure...

Everybody just calm down and get back on topic...

Please

 

[tinkerbell12]

No. I thank you and Amodolphin. Its true advice and that's what i'm asking for. Keep it coming. I'm thinking about it. I spend all day with him tomorrow for theatre but, we'll see.

I'd really like more advice guys if you have it.

I know I know, off topic, but hold tight: I remember a spelling test in 5th grade with theatre on it and that's how it spelled it: T-H-E-A-T-R-E yet my teacher said, "No! That's how they spelled it in the olden-days" so I got it wrong... really, can't you spell it that way? Was it just a type-o!?!?!? Sorry


Yea, on topic again, he likes you... just try to hang out more leaving little hints... this happened to me, I started to like my guy friend and we just hung out a lot anyway.... Try to keep it off of IM and eMail and Texts as much as possible because it's hard to know whether you're joking or not.... you know? Luckily for me, he asked me out, he broke it to me when we were watching Benchwarmers... he's like, "Do you want any popcorn?" (OK, I know it sounds weird) but then I was like, "No, not really, thanks." and he's like "Oh, uh, do you wanna see Pursuit of Happyness?" I was like, "Uh, it's not out yet, Tim." he's like, "I know, wanna see it in the movie theatre?" I was like, "Are you asking me out?" he's like, "Oh, I guess so"

It was all good, Just try to make it move a little more smoother than mine lol.

Good luck!

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

I know I know, off topic, but hold tight: I remember a spelling test in 5th grade with theatre on it and that's how it spelled it: T-H-E-A-T-R-E yet my teacher said, "No! That's how they spelled it in the olden-days" so I got it wrong... really, can't you spell it that way? Was it just a type-o!?!?!? Sorry


Yea, on topic again, he likes you... just try to hang out more leaving little hints... this happened to me, I started to like my guy friend and we just hung out a lot anyway.... Try to keep it off of IM and eMail and Texts as much as possible because it's hard to know whether you're joking or not.... you know? Luckily for me, he asked me out, he broke it to me when we were watching Benchwarmers... he's like, "Do you want any popcorn?" (OK, I know it sounds weird but then I was like, "No, not really, thanks." and he's like "Oh, uh, do you wanna see Pursuit of Happyness?" I was like, "Uh, it's not out yet, Tim." he's like, "I know, wanna see it in the movie theatre?" I was like, "Are you asking me out?" he's like, "Oh, I guess so"

It was all good, Just try to make it move a little more smoother than mine lol.

Good luck!

Well this is how I always remember it.
Theatre The act of doing it, the art etc.
Theater The building you do theatre in.

But most of the time I use Theatre just because it looks cooler.

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Bump.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I also use Theatre because it looks cooler...

At my school guys go for the girls who are skinny, good hair, designer clothes, popular, athletic. And normally those girls are also flat. Guys at my school don't care about big chests, just skinny hips...

 

[AngienLuLu]

Just try to keep the line of communication open. If a potenial relationship is there, it will develop on its own. Don't worry about it too much. Everything will fall into place.

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Just try to keep the line of communication open. If a potenial relationship is there, it will develop on its own. Don't worry about it too much. Everything will fall into place.

Okay well how about this guys. We were all going upstairs and he's right there and he goes " Is anyone backstage right before prince ali?" and he was right behind me basically screaming it in my ear and I was like "Yeah, I am, why?" and he goes "I need help changing." So i'm like "uh ohkay." and he told me what I needed to do and goes its pretty self explanatory. so I help him the first time and I had his shirt backwards and when he was putting it on he's like "You've got it backwards dearie" Jokingly. Well the show finished and we were downstairs and he was changing into his Act 1 costume and it was just him and me and we really had a conversation. Like a good full conversation, and it was just nice. So the second time we did it, I helped him again and got it right!

We'll see how things go tonight.


You DISers mean so much to me helping me... I couldn't thank you enough. Faith, Trust, and Pixie Dust
Katie<33

 

[tinkerbell12]

Welcome

 

[BabyPiglet]

Okay well how about this guys. We were all going upstairs and he's right there and he goes " Is anyone backstage right before prince ali?" and he was right behind me basically screaming it in my ear and I was like "Yeah, I am, why?" and he goes "I need help changing." So i'm like "uh ohkay." and he told me what I needed to do and goes its pretty self explanatory. so I help him the first time and I had his shirt backwards and when he was putting it on he's like "You've got it backwards dearie" Jokingly. Well the show finished and we were downstairs and he was changing into his Act 1 costume and it was just him and me and we really had a conversation. Like a good full conversation, and it was just nice. So the second time we did it, I helped him again and got it right!

We'll see how things go tonight.


You DISers mean so much to me helping me... I couldn't thank you enough. Faith, Trust, and Pixie Dust
Katie<33

Now I really think he likes you...lol...

Good luck!

And your welcome...