Subconcious Crushes.

[TinkerTracy]

I think like CJ said he likes you but is just to afraid. I know alot of guys who are shy.

Like I am always saying...TALK TO HIM!!!

Lol....

I completly agree. Sometimes guys just need a push in the right direction. Tell him how you feel. FLAT out tell him. Maybe he didn't quite get it the first time. If he's shy then maybe YOU ask him out to a movie or something?
Good luck!

 

[Loves Disney]

If you are such good friends, bring it up that you don't like being alone. Laugh a little about it too lol. Mention something like, "Ugh, I hate dances. It only reminds me that I don't have anyone to dance with" and kind of show that it isn't bothering you too much and say it VERY casually. It will make him think about and it won't make you sound so desparate or anxious. See where the conversation goes from there.

That would help break the ice about relationships...and is subtle.

I think it's hard to tell whether he likes you or not. I know many guys who do that and it doesn't mean they like the girl. Then, I know some guys who do do that. It's a foggy area that can't really be determined.

Don't ask him about the e-mail. It's too bad he didn't say anything...but asking about it might make him feel uncomfortable if he did read it. You don't want to risk making him feel uncomfortable - that could scare him away...from friendship also because it would make things awkward between the both of you.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Katie my advice was truthful. Just because I said that he might like you meant that I wasn't being truthful?

I honestly don't know the situation well enough, amybe you should ask one of your close friends???

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Katie my advice was truthful. Just because I said that he might like you meant that I wasn't being truthful?

I honestly don't know the situation well enough, amybe you should ask one of your close friends???

No no no! That's not what I meant at all Jenny! Its just that I didn't want those who had their opinions getting flamed for having true opinions! I loove your advice too. You all are really trying to help me here and I'll always be here for all of you if you ever have problems and need advice.

And, I have gone to my friends, but I don't think they're giving me the truest opinions they could be. So I came here.

Well, I guess I could tell you guys some more...
We know virtually everything about eachother, him and I. We talk all the time, share interests, rant, have the same close friends, do the same activities. There are few differences about us. I feel like he completely understands me.

I can normally read anyone. I can tell when you're sad or happy or mad or just want to be left alone. But no, not him. And it makes me mad!

 

[BabyPiglet]

Hmmmm....I really can't think of any more advice besides what I already gave...

Sorry Katie

 

[RavenluvsFigment]

I Think He Likes You, BIG Time! But That's Just Me. I've Personally Never Had A Boy Friend.

 

[Sparkle_Cherry]

I was stating my opinion.

And so was Mur13. I'm sorry Jenny, but I think that was more of an attack than an opinion, on your part. I have to agree with Quiffle on this one.

As for your probem Katie, I honestly don't think that he likes you that way, based on the information that you've given. I might be wrong, but how am I supposed to know, I have never even seen you two together in person

To me it sounds like he's just being a friend. I think if he liked you, he would have responded to the email, an email is impersonal and he would have taken advantage of the situation to tell you how he really feels. How much more of a push does he need?

I personally, would confront him, but I wouldn't push it if he feels uneasy. Maybe he just isn't interested.

~Caitlin

 

[BabyPiglet]

You're right..But I wasn't attacking him...

I was simply stating my opinion about guys in general..I think...

Aw well...

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

And so was Mur13. I'm sorry Jenny, but I think that was more of an attack than an opinion, on your part. I have to agree with Quiffle on this one.

As for your probem Katie, I honestly don't think that he likes you that way, based on the information that you've given. I might be wrong, but how am I supposed to know, I have never even seen you two together in person

To me it sounds like he's just being a friend. I think if he liked you, he would have responded to the email, an email is impersonal and he would have taken advantage of the situation to tell you how he really feels. How much more of a push does he need?

I personally, would confront him, but I wouldn't push it if he feels uneasy. Maybe he just isn't interested.

~Caitlin

Well, That is an amazing point of view. But i'm always looking for the positive... it could be that i've grown on him over the past month. But Maybe not. I loove this advice though.

 

[OnceUponAStar*]

ah you remind me of a situation I was in..

Well due to the information that you have given us, I believe he does not like you if he did he would have hinted it by now, said something. Perhaps hes a shy guy, but have you held hands? hmm? have you sat close to each other? If not then most likely, probably not..If you want answers, you need to ask about that email, your not going to get answers from us. Only from him.

 

[polysisterchick]

Oh man. I love how you girls think that that stuff means a guy likes you.

Now I'm not saying he doesn't. But, I'm a guy, and I do that kind of stuff all the time. Am I hinting that I like the girl? Nah! Do the girls think I like em? Nope! Really, if you've told him and he didn't respond, its probably because he thought you would understand that he doesn't.

I could be wrong. Just ask him again, I guess.

ok, except for the generalized opinion in the first 2 sentences -- I think he may be on to something.

i don't know if the guy likes you, maybe he does.
i don't know if the guy doesn't like you, maybe he doesn't.
it's hard to tell with those scenarios:

- scenario 3: I hang out alot with my best guy friends.
- scenario 1: some of my guy friends will reach around me (putting us in a "cozy" position), just for the sake of saving time and being polite/gentlemanly by letting me keep the chair that i am sitting in.
- scenario 2: i got nothing. sorry.


my advice:
Talk to the guy, i guess.

anything over the internet probably won't do anything, because he could use the i didn't get your email.. it must have gotten lost, or my friend must have deleted it, etc.


Good luck

 

[Lil_Tink]

Not to be a downer but I do that with my best friend all the time. And we both have gf/bf who we like alot.


But good luck I'm hoping he likes you

 

[Mur13]

Not to be a downer but I do that with my best friend all the time. And we both have gf/bf who we like alot.


But good luck I'm hoping he likes you

Well I'm sure she would know if he had a gf, haha.

For the record, I wasn't trying to be a downer. But I've never heard or felt subconscious crushes. For me, and the guys I hang out with, we know who we like. Now, some people will do that to show affection and try to hint at liking you. Is that what he's doing? I dunno, no one knows, you'd have to ask him.

Its like this girl I know. I've liked her for the longest time, but not really enough to put myself out on a limb because there always more fish in the sea. At lunch, she'll sit in front of me on a lower of the bleachers, and sometimes, she'll lean back and rest her back on my knees.

But does that mean she likes me? Nah, because I know who she likes. She's just trying to be comfortable. I'm willing to let a good friend of mine lean on me if its as simple as not moving my knees.

You might be reading too much into things. Or you might not.

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

ah you remind me of a situation I was in..

Well due to the information that you have given us, I believe he does not like you if he did he would have hinted it by now, said something. Perhaps hes a shy guy, but have you held hands? hmm? have you sat close to each other? If not then most likely, probably not..If you want answers, you need to ask about that email, your not going to get answers from us. Only from him.

We have. We sat really close during the Superbowl at my friend's party and we always sit next to eachother at practice and stuff.We didn't hold hands because arent you supposed to do that when you're dating?

Ahhh! I don't know. I don't want to make things akward. But I reaaaallyyy like him. Do you guys want a picture of us? I'm bored

 

[BabyPiglet]

Yes a pic would be good...

It seems to me that you do really like him. Because I know from experience when you really like someone you'll do anything to make yourself believe that they also like you.

 

[Lil_Tink]

Well I'm sure she would know if he had a gf, haha.

Haha yeah. I was just using that of how I know my best friend doesn't like me XD

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Not a very good picture but...

good thing he doesn't read this board...

 

[BabyPiglet]

Awww he's cute...

I wish I had somebody who liked me now. I know I know I just broke up with my bf. But now I'm on the rebound and lonely..

But no of course now I'm a teenager and I can do whatever the heck I want!

Stupid Jenny Stupid!!!

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Yeah. Alot of people think he isn't. And seriously, I could care less what he looks like.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Well it's not a very good picture but of what I can see of him he's cute..lol...