I agree that times were very different before. It was really eye-opening to me to help my kids navigate today’s college process and compare it to my own in the 80s (when I used to pay a lady $3 per page to type my papers for me - on a typewriter - and spend hours in the library late into the night xeroxing articles to take home with me to study, etc.). Shoot, when my DH went to college in the 90s I thought I died and went to Heaven to discover a Brother Word Processor!

It was relatively simple then to go into a Financial Aid office and get whatever you needed. I wasn’t nearly as good at it as my sister was, she enjoyed access to top schools for little out of pocket, because she had a way with words (could talk a door of its hinges) and a lot of gumption. This is not the case today.
But my point was that keeping college costs low
can still be done today, with some ‘thinking outside the box’, ala Debt Free U. I never said it was easy, and one definitely has to be willing to travel off-the-beaten-path and use creative ways to accomplish goals, especially in high COL areas and places with little state help, etc.
When I first moved out at 18, I rented a room for $25/week. Yes, it crimped my style a bit. But otoh I lived with a nice family in a nice home and was safe and relatively isolated from the party world, which, in retrospect, probably helped me focus just on work and school, which I really needed at that time in my life.
Rents where we are right now are astronomical. A friend of mine recently made an offer to my son to rent a room if need be if he gets a job near where she lives. She’s alone in a big house, would enjoy the company and security, and would be really happy to get some yard work done or some things fixed around the house that he could do in exchange for a nice room in a beautiful house with a big pool and lovely beaches near to where he might be working, along with a little rent, etc. But nothing like he’d pay for his own apartment. There are lots of people who might enjoy this type of arrangement but it’s probably not for everyone. (And I’m not sure DS would actually do it but it’s nice to have options.)
Waiting now to hear that it’s not realistic for a young kid to do something like that, right? They need ‘the college experience’ with life in a dorm! Bull! It’s just a different type of experience! And could work out for plenty of young people if they think it through and have that type of opportunity. We
must look at these types of options to try to keep debt loads low if that’s what it takes, especially if the alternative is being saddled with debt throughout adulthood!