ColoradoMom12
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We just returned from spending our Thanksgiving giving at Disney. My DD (6) has some medical needs. I usually rent a stroller for her in the parks, and she does fine waiting in short lines. This trip she was a bit run down at the beginning, and by the middle, she wasn't doing well at all and I had to get a wheelchair tag for her stroller. This was our first experience with needing accommodations at Disney. Overall it was a positive experience. It was much less stressful on her (and me) once we had the wheelchair tag.
The big question I have, if we would ever end up needing this again, is with navigating the buses. I know a stroller, even a special needs one, can't be properly secured on a bus. I am happy to fold it up. What I did mind was needing to wait in the line with everyone else. When we got to the front, I had to step to the side, help DD out, and fold the stroller. Often by the time we got onto the bus, there was nowhere left to sit. Once or twice I had to ask other people if they would mind standing. I said something like, "my daughter has a disability. Would you mind standing so that she has a place to sit?" Once the person I asked was grumpy about her bad knees (at which point I just picked DD up, prepared to hold her the entire ride) until another lady offered her seat to my DD. It was a very awkward experience for me. I don't like asking other people to stand. Is it possible for us to stand in the wheelchair spot, explain to the driver that I will fold the stroller, but I need to put my DD on first so she has somewhere to sit? What advice do those of you who've done this before have for me? Is there a better way for me to ask other guests if they mind standing? Or, if we are towards the end of a line to board the bus, should we step to the side and wait for another bus to come along, guaranteeing we will be among the first on with a place for my DD to sit?
The big question I have, if we would ever end up needing this again, is with navigating the buses. I know a stroller, even a special needs one, can't be properly secured on a bus. I am happy to fold it up. What I did mind was needing to wait in the line with everyone else. When we got to the front, I had to step to the side, help DD out, and fold the stroller. Often by the time we got onto the bus, there was nowhere left to sit. Once or twice I had to ask other people if they would mind standing. I said something like, "my daughter has a disability. Would you mind standing so that she has a place to sit?" Once the person I asked was grumpy about her bad knees (at which point I just picked DD up, prepared to hold her the entire ride) until another lady offered her seat to my DD. It was a very awkward experience for me. I don't like asking other people to stand. Is it possible for us to stand in the wheelchair spot, explain to the driver that I will fold the stroller, but I need to put my DD on first so she has somewhere to sit? What advice do those of you who've done this before have for me? Is there a better way for me to ask other guests if they mind standing? Or, if we are towards the end of a line to board the bus, should we step to the side and wait for another bus to come along, guaranteeing we will be among the first on with a place for my DD to sit?