Strategies for Helping and SPD Preschooler

[Woodmnky]

We have been to WDW twice in the past year and are going back in the Fall just before DS turns 4. On our previous two trips we have not had any success with going to shows. The lights and sounds have been too much for DS. He doesn't technically qualify for a SPD diagnosis, but his reactions are very similar and especially pronouced at WDW.

Even shows like Disney Jr Live on Stage have left him in tears and we have needed to leave early. Last time we stood on the back wall & I had him in a baby carrier, but we still only lasted about 10 minutes. He has seen this show on Youtube over a hundred times and was very sad afterwards that he wasn't able to stay.

We face much the same thing on rides and there are some that most kids love that we just have to avoid. He is most comfortable on rides that are outdoors such as Dumbo & Barnstormer.

Any suggestions? We would like to branch out and see some new things, but not at the expense of DS having a meltdown and being upset for the remainder of the day.

 

[aaarcher86]

Since the actual things that happen in the show are what set him off, I think it'll be difficult. I'd personally try one show to gauge it, but I'd probably have he mindset that it's not going to happen. I do think that as he gets older and learns more coping mechanisms/is exposed to more things, he might be able to work it out.

Since it's the lights and sounds specifically, you could try some noise canceling headphones/ear plugs and even sunglasses. It might dim the activity enough in both ends that it makes it tolerable. Wearing a hat with a bill could kind of be a blocker for the activity. Sounds weird, but kind of how horse blinders keep them from seeing everyone at once and focused more forward. I'd still stay in the back like you have been, and it's very possible watching these shows on YouTube and knowing what to expect will be super helpful already.

I think Disney Jr is probably one of the most 'busy' light and sound shows there. Maybe try a less busy show first to see how he does.

 

[Woodmnky]

Thank you. Those are good suggestions. He does feel much more comfortable when he is in his stroller so I have considered getting a stroller as a wheelchair pass, but I don't want to take space from those with no other choice but to use that area.

I just feel bad that he really wants to do these things (when he is home and seeing them on TV), but then can't handle it when we get there. He gets so sad afterwards that he didn't get to do something.

We tend to forget all about DS's sensativities when at home because our environment is set up to avoid his triggers, but when we are at WDW it is impossible to forget.

 

[aaarcher86]

Thank you. Those are good suggestions. He does feel much more comfortable when he is in his stroller so I have considered getting a stroller as a wheelchair pass, but I don't want to take space from those with no other choice but to use that area. I just feel bad that he really wants to do these things (when he is home and seeing them on TV), but then can't handle it when we get there. He gets so sad afterwards that he didn't get to do something. We tend to forget all about DS's sensativities when at home because our environment is set up to avoid his triggers, but when we are at WDW it is impossible to forget.

If the stroller would benefit him, do it. Don't feel bad. That's exactly what it's meant to be used for so you aren't taking up anything.

I think seeing the sadness and disappointment is one if the hardest things Fingers crossed with a few tools and a bit of practice he can make it through!