We have 3 kids (ages 4,8,and 10). We also had our 2 nephews with us on our last trip (ages 4 and 8 mos). We stayed 2 dyas at BCVm then moved to BWV for 8 more. WHy the switch? So we could "try" SAB and determine our feelings on it. And we were glad, in the end, that we had done it this way.
For starters, let me agree with everyone else, both are great resorts. We liked the laid-back feeling of BCV, and B&C and Cape May are great eating places. BWV has the close access to all those eateries (like ESPN, SPoodles, etc.) Location of either resort is great. But when it came to the pool... well ,SAB was just so much WORK for us! At Luna Park, we could see everything from several vantage points. If child A hit the slides while Child B stayed under the elephant spray, I could readily see that. Pools are busy places; I like knowing where my crew is at all times! At SAB, it became difficult. The boys wanted to hti the slides -- which meant they disappeared as they went across the sidewalk, around and up into the crow's nest. Can't see that from the pool. And if you go where you CAN see it, then you can't seen them exit the slide into the pool you just left! If youngest wants to go to the shallow sand area, then you can't see the older kids in the deeper sections. My dd couldn't make up her mind WHERE she wanted to be -- she kept going from pool to ship to sand to pool -- AUgghh! For that much effort, I can go to Blizzard Beach! When we come back from the parks, we like to relax at the pool -- it was just too much work. Not bad for just a day at the pool -- but too much work at the end of a busy day. I think it is probably great for families whose kids are old enough to venture on their own -- they can feel like they are "apart" from Mom and Dad while being somewhat nearby. But for my age set, it was fun but more taxing than we like. We like VWL pool and also Luna Park...and SSR was quite nice as well. We love the "true" water parks, TL and BB, so we always put at least one of them into a trip. As a result, it's not that imperative to have a "water park" pool at our resort. A nice open pool and a slide pretty much do it for us! We are looking forward to trying OKW again -- it's been a long time since we've stayed at our "first love" resort, and we are excited about the pool refurbs and slide there! But alas, we're using pts this summer for HHI first....
As always, so many resorts, so little time!
Good luck with your planning!