Not sure about the Grandstand pool, I have not been keeping up with refurb schedules. Someone around here should know though.
The first question I can answer! Member Services will only speak with the member. So if you want to request a specific section, your friend will need to do it for you. Likewise if you wish to add a dining plan, your friend will have to add it for you. Payment in full for dining plan will be due at the time it is added. So you will need to figure out how that will be paid. If you trust this friend with your CC info, that would be the easiest, as then you would be charged directly.
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There was a posting a couple of pages back saying the Grandstand pool will be closed Aug 25-Sept 14