Wow! We have so many things that are similar. My DH and I were married on Dec. 21, 2000, so we had a Christmas wedding too! We also lost our first child in Feb. He was stillborn on Feb. 11, 2004. I was full-term and it was heart-breaking. We now have a DD and a DS, but they are younger than yours. I also am doing a VR for our 10th anniversary, and I so love the colored dresses! I love MS gowns, but not the price. I am not a big fan of David's bridal, but I might have to go check them out again.
So, I haven't read the twilight series yet, since I am in school full time and I run my own business. But my DH bought me the whole series for a Christmas present. I am hoping to get to them in the next couple of months!
All of your ideas sound great so far. I don't think that we are having anyone come to our VR b/c of the economy. My SIL might come, but it is up in the air. The more we think about it, the more we think it should be something private for us, and then we can celebrate when we come home.
If you get Cindy's carriage, I will be so happy for you and jealous at the same time!

I really wanted to go that route, but couldn't justify the costs of it. So we are doing a
DCL VR and then a MK photo shoot.
Anyway, I have like hijacked your pj here!!! Everything looks great so far! I can't wait for more!
