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Dh wants to pack light for our vacation. We will be there from 4/25 thru 5/1 and we only want to do carryons. Based on experience and weather history, how do I pack for us? 3 outfits plus our travel clothes? 4 for each? I always do laundry on vacation anyway (I am a habitual over packer and who wants to mix dirty clothes with clean stuff we haven't used - ewwwwwwwww). Can I use a small pull along suitcase as a carryon for all of the beans' clothing and then me and DH each with a duffel bag??
We have never flown with the kids before, so I am clueless

last time I flew it was alone from here to Boston last summer to meet up with DH who was there on business - not having checked bags was AWESOME!!
C'mon homies......spare a tip, secret, anything to make this an ENJOYABLE event!!