somethin that i need help on...

[NeverLand<3]

ok. so this is a thread for everyone to talk about their boyfriend/girlfriend/crush problems.
i'll go first.
i really like this guy but he is a year older that me and we have one class together. he is my sister's bestfriend's brother. whenever i say somethin to him he gives me this blank stare and i walk away. usually after sayin somethin stupid. he talks to girls, but no girls i hang out with really. i just get nervous when im around him. i cant say anythin even when i get the chance to. so any advice? please help.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

ok. so this is a thread for everyone to talk about their boyfriend/girlfriend/crush problems.
i'll go first.
i really like this guy but he is a year older that me and we have one class together. he is my sister's bestfriend's brother. whenever i say somethin to him he gives me this blank stare and i walk away. usually after sayin somethin stupid. he talks to girls, but no girls i hang out with really. i just get nervous when im around him. i cant say anythin even when i get the chance to. so any advice? please help.

mmm, i dont know.. I've never really had the problem of some one doing that to me, but lets see. You two have a class together.. try after class asking him about an assignment, and if you could maybe text him later if you have any questions about it.

 

[NeverLand<3]

well, he doesnt have a phone and the class is orchestra. and all his friends come in and start talkin to him. so its kinda hard......

 

[cindys_castle2011]

well, he doesnt have a phone and the class is orchestra. and all his friends come in and start talkin to him. so its kinda hard......

well, uhmm. dang i honestly don't know what to tell you to do.. sorry..

 

[metsluva57]

well, he doesnt have a phone and the class is orchestra. and all his friends come in and start talkin to him. so its kinda hard......

does he play the same instrument as you? If he does maybe ask him to help you with the music.

 

[BandGeek911]

Just be yourself.
I'm no expert, and if I was I'd be able to get my crush's attention.
But being yourself is probably the best advice.
Orchestra is a good class to strike up conversations...you could say how much you love/hate a song.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Just talk with him. Make fun of a song you're playing or talk about something funny that happened at school that day.

Friendship is pretty much necassary if you want things to stop being awkward. Then, once you get to know each other (and you're still crushing) you can ask him out.

 

[NeverLand<3]

thanks you guys! this is great advice. i'll try it today. wish me luck!