
Am I the only one who didn't think that much of the this? I didn't see the big fuss over the makeover. ... I've raised 2 girls too!
Maybe it's just me???
I can't speak for every mother/daughter out there but I know that Merida affected my DD differently than every other Princess with the notable exception of Mulan. (Mulan kicks butt & takes names; she worked hard in the name of honor & respect for one's family.)
Her relationship with this character is a lot more personal to her & obviously a lot of that has to do with her being a redhead herself.
After we saw the movie, it was Merida's tenacity, bravery & willingness to stand out as different that my DD noticed, commented on & admired. The fact that she was more concerned with her target practice than the frizz in her hair spoke volumes to her.
She enjoys the other princesses, but she doesn't take them seriously since they seem to rely heavily on their relationships with men to make things happen in their lives or for their lives to have value at all. Cinderella? Whatever in my house, although we enjoy her furry friends. Aurora? Ha!! Pocohantas was all cool in her book until she started learning history & understood the discrepencies between reality & the movie.
But Merida? She stands up for herself & fights for her own freedom & openly mocks the idea that she needs a male companion to have worth. "I am Merida & I'll be shooting for my OWN hand!"
So when Disney stuffed her into this makeover to "make" her fit in with their Princessy Image, she took it personally. The Merida she "knows" wouldn't take that lying down & IN FACT rebelled against a makeover IN THE MOVIE. She rips through the dress symbolically in a way that shows she will not be put into that kind of mold.