Hopefully we can all continue to enjoy the parks without anyone feeling they need to hide at home.
I think the bottom line is that,whether it’s strollers or ECVs, it’s impossible for a bystander to genuinely know what the passenger’s level of need is, and as a society we’re probably best served by assuming positive intent. Does the person in the ECV have a mobility challenge or are they lazy? Should that kid who looks like he’s 8 be up and walking or is he actually a really big toddler or has a disability? It’s not really an outsider’s call, the people involved have the most information and are hopefully making the best decisions for themselves and their family.
And at the same time, those operating strollers or ECVs need to treat fellow guests with respect. I have been nearly run over by several ECVs and strollers, mostly due to carelessness in difficult, crowded conditions. I don’t think most people are being malicious about it, though many could be more careful and show concern or remorse if they do get too close. (And in full honesty, on our last WDW trip I did clip the edge of a lady’s flip flop with my stroller wheel. The crowd was pushing together and she got funneled into my path, I don’t think she intentionally stepped there but I also couldn’t stop in time. I apologized profusely, checked to make sure I had not injured her—I just caught the shoe, fortunately! She was pretty salty about it, but hopefully her day improved from there. Mine did!)