Well, we LOVE doing tons of meals.... with three kids ages 7, 7 and 9.
August trip we did 18 table service and one food court for a 7-night stay - and upcoming trip have 15 table service and 2 food courts planned for a 6 night stay.
For us, we love it - kids love the character meals (majority of our meals are character!), and we find it to give us a really nice break time. Instead of leaving the park to head back to the resort, it's easier and quicker for us to stay put, take a dining break and then are ready for more parks after that!
BUT... it IS a lot of eating. Way too much to be honest. We usually do a 10:30 breakfast, lunch between 2:30 and 3:30 and then dinner anywhere from 6:00 till 8:30 we plan it. We stay at the parks till pretty late.
I try to work it so if we have a really filling meal scheduled - like a favorite buffet where we know we'll eat a lot - to schedule the meal before it to be a light meal.
With kids... they pick at their food, not huge eaters, so eating so close in time to the previous meal, they are ready to eat again.
But it does take away from park time bigtime. Oh, can't do this ride now, don't think we'll have time to do it and get in on time to check in for our ADR... stuff like that.
Depends on how long you take in restaurants. us, we're like food arrives, we're ready for the check. Character meals we're long done and then sit there waiting for the remaining characters. I usually budget and hour 15 to an hour and a half per restaurant - which includes wait time until we're outta there.
Add in wait time for your table, too. Usually we wait 10-15 minutes per restaurant - our August
free dining trip we waited on average 30, 35 minutes PER MEAL!
your meals listed.... looks like you have a good bit of jumping around from park to park to resort to resort. Don't forget to add in sufficient travel time. That is really the biggest time waster right there.
Kids should be good at the character meals or buffets - but otherwise, many restaurants over the same kid meal selections over and over again - may be a bit much for them.
I'd say skip some of the meals - who was it you were going with? Inlaws, parents? Let them have a couple nice meals together and you guys do your own thing for a bit perhaps?
But having done tons of meals and our family loves it - I admit it really is way too much. We're the type of family who eats out ALL the time and really look forward to all our fav Disney restaurants and liking to try some new places each trip, too. Also, having an autistic son in a big special needs stroller - trying to push him and deal with the other kids while trying to carry a tray through a food court and pay - nope, ain't happening, so table service for us! We mainly do so many meals just because we have too many favorites we want to fit in each trip - would be better to take longer trips and spread out the meals more!