My wife, 4 year old daughter and myself are taking a 7 day cruise for our 10 anniversary. I would like to surprise my wife with a vow renewal but want to keep it simple. Everything I see is something for a big ceremony, etc. My wife and I are pretty low key people and since it is just the 3 of us I was hoping that I could so something simple with just us and the ship captain. Does anyone know if you can tailor a vow renewal to keep it simple?