Your children sound like they will be fine at any of the signature dining restaurants (except V&A where they have a min age of 10). As long as children can be relatively quiet and sit nicely through a 2 plus hour meal they will be fine at the Sig restaurants. The problem becomes when rude parents allow their children to scream, cry, run around, and even hit/kick others during what is meant to be a finer dining experience.
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Of course I only have tried a signature only ounce but we had at narcosses a few tables from ours 2 adult with 2 kids ( I'll have to guess maybe 4-6 years old ) they were loud , getting up on nthe chairs .....while we didnt say anything I saw quite a few people starring at them ... it was a bit disturbing and i'll hd more not quite relaxing for the parents who maybe used to of their credits for that meal .I'll have to say I can understand some of thos people use 2 of their tables credit to have either a quiet dinner , or romantic dinner , some may even pay of their own pockets ( a lot of $$$$ ) to hear kids talking quite loudly , getting up on chairs ...
I would say depends on the kids ...also could be something ( signature dinner ) while not travelingwith the kids ..
I have never understood why a family would insist on staying at a signature restaurant when things start to go wrong. Dh, myself and two of our friends were eating at Narcoosees for the first time one evening. We were seated at a lovely table on the lower level next to a family who had obviously had a difficult meal. They had three children and four adults. The children were youngish (between 2 and 5) and none of them were having a good time. They were quite simply "done" - crying, whining, crawling around the table, etc. The adults were not finished eating their entrees and were trying the control the children by holding them on their laps. Only one adults at a time was really able to eat. The children didn't want to be confined. They were screaming and wiggling and trying to "break loose". This was so bad that one of the children managed the kick my husband in the back. The adult didn't even apoligize. They didn't leave either, until all of the adults were finished eating (about 20 mins after we sat down). Why would you want to have that kind of a power struggle on vacation? No one at that table, or I'd dare to say several table around them, was have any fun that night.