ITA with everything you said. We also have a ready box for a handgun, but it's high on a shelf in a closet. The others (another handgun and a couple of rifles) are in a locked steel gun safe. We also have kids. There is absolutely NO way that my kids, or anyone for that matter, can access our guns. I take offense to an earlier post where the poster stated that she wouldn't allow her kids to play at another house that had guns, but if it was a police officers home she'd have no problem because of the diligence they would have in securing their gun. Most gunowners secure their guns as safely as any officer would. I don't mind if a parent asks if I have guns in the home, and I'm happy to show the mom/dad where they are and how they're stored. I've only had to do this once, but mom was satisfied her daughter would be safe and allowed her to stay and play. We have a high crime rate here in So Cal. We also live an 1.5 hours from the border. As long as there is crime where I live, we'll own handguns. The rifles my dh uses for sport.
Although it's for protection, most gunowners won't ever have to use their weapon. But sometimes they come in handy. Short story: We were camping in the Glamis sand dunes (which is near the Mexico border), when a woman ran into our camp for help because her husband had left to go on a ride with the others in their camp, and she was there alone with a few other women and their kids. Some guys (illegals from Mexico, sometimes they come through the camping areas when crossing the border) walked into their camp and started going through their food and belongings, sat down by their campfire and wouldn't leave. The women and kids were terrifed of these guys because they were menacing and refused to leave. Four guys from our camp ran over there, and my dh and his friend took their handguns with them. They got there, and told the illegals to leave. The illegals refused, and two of them whipped out their knives. Dh and his friend brandished their guns, and told them to leave the camp NOW. The illegals ran off. Police got their 30 minutes later, and all was well. Who knows what would have happened, but I'm glad my dh had a gun to protect himself vs. getting into a physical battle with those guys.