What is your point?Does this have anything to do with the OP's original post? Sheesh, what some people dream up is beyond my comprehension
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My point is that I don't know whose kids these are. Are they her kid's half siblings by her husband - no legal relationship to her or her kids by her first marriage?
If they are her kid's half siblings, not her own kids (by biology or adoption) I wouldn't bring them along unless my ex paid some of their way. Of course, I wouldn't invite them either without that condition being filled and if my kid's half siblings didn't get to go on vacation, I'd feel bad, but wouldn't rectify it any more than I take my kid's friends along. If I were to invite them out of the goodness of my heart, I wouldn't go back to my ex looking for assistance.
If these are my own kids from my first marriage, then they are my kids, I treat them like the rest of the family and pay their way. I don't go looking to my ex to subsidize it.