My last post on this one.............I promise.
Anne, you really need to let this one go and admit there is no requirement or preference at any WDW restaurant, other than V&A, that people not wear shorts. I have seen a number of your posts in the past. While you may sometimes have strong opinions on what you prefer, you seem to have a lot of WDW experience and provide some good info. Just seems to me you are hurting your credibility here.
Now generally I wouldn't care, but your insistence that AP has some code that discourages shorts may affect other people, making them either wear pants on a 90 degree, humid day (which most people on vacation in Florida don't want to do, yourself excluded) or feel uncomfortable wearing shorts. For what? Because you think they should or a conciege either misunderstood a question or provided bad info?
I'm going to take the WRITTEN INFO WDW gives out over the spoken word of a CM who might have just started the day before and didn't have a clue.
Truth be told, I spoke to four CM's yesterday (since I called a few times before AP opened at 5). One at WDW Dining, one in reservations, one at the front desk of the WL, and the hostess at AP. They all provided the same info - and that is that there is no real dress code and "resort casual" means nothing more than "don't wear a bathing suit". Were all four misinformed, as well as other CM that others have spoken to that have said the same? Or is it possible the concierge you communicated with misunderstood the question or was the misinformed one? Really, I could call AP again and confirm how long the hostess I speak to has been there, or better yet speak to the manager. I could ask you to provide your written proof - however, is what a concierge writes in an email any more "official" than what another CM says on the phone. Is all that necessary?
Let's just admit that your position is just this, and not any kind of WDW preference or policy. Maybe what you think was influenced by a misinformed concierge, but let's move on and let people enjoy their meals in comfortable cloths. If someone decides a thong is comfortable we'll just let the hostess at the podium deal with that.