Just my 2 cents: What many new comers may not realize is that Johnny Quest and Poison Ivy started this thread for the "regular"
DCL cruise that was scheduled. After months of planning, it was changed to a "Chartered cruise" then, after weeks of speculation, it was deemed a DVC Member cruise. PI & JQ continued with the DIS thread for existing members who were still on the now DVC cruise. At that point another cruiser came into the picture started a "new" thread for the DVC Member cruise with disregard to the continuing original thread. JQ requested that the 2 DIS threads be merged, which they were. HG who started the DVC thread then seemed to put herself in a place of authority over the thread. When JQ and PI balked at this, the Facebook Page was started.
I have tried to remain neutral between the two pages/threads. However, I had a post removed from the FB page, which I found puzzling. It was a post in reply to someone stating that they were confused by the DIS board thread and all that was happening over the type of cruise, not understanding the stress over the change to DVC cruise. I merely explained that the thread started as a regular cruise, and that there was a lot of stress and unhappiness when it was changed. But it was now the original DIS thread continuing as a DVC member cruise. My post was not argumentative or demeaning, just the facts. Within a day my post was removed and the facebook moderator left a minimal post that basically anything else didn't matter. I just checked back on the FB page and can't find the original post asking about the Disboard page, it appears to be gone. There have been several others from the DIS that are also members of the FB page that have stated that they have had posts mysteriously disappear. That is where a lot of the problems lay. It appears that if you have something to say that doesn't set well with the moderator, it disappears. Also the FE group is not visible. Updates are sent at the moderators discresion. I am a member of one of the Adult Only FE groups. Personally, I don't care how many FE groups there are or who takes care of them. I have joined the one I am most comfortable with and that is how it should be.
I continue to be a member of the facebook page and hope to remain there. If I disappear from the FB member group, you will know it was not by my choice. I am NOT removing myself from the FaceBook group, and I have noted my choice to stay with FB in a PM to the moderator. I will continue to be active with both pages and hope that this whole mess can be resolved or at least put behind us. JQ and PI have done a wonderful job with extensive plans and the DIS thread. Sigris has done a good job with the FB page. They are two different sites and different people caring for each site. Just remember they are for the SAME cruise.
After reading others remarks,
it has come to feel like a divided camp with members starting to select "sides". That is the most disheartening of it all. That is not the purpose of these groups. Any disagreements between JQ, PI and HG are theirs alone, and should remain between them.
I'm going to put on my "old lady pants" and say "KNOCK IT OFF". Start enjoying the planning and let the rest go by the wayside.