How about starting it up again with a friend, that way you have two sets of eyes, and someone to have your back...in case you forget something!
Not to many people that I actually hang with. The one friend I was going to do this with backed out so I was left with no one.
I would do it if it wasn't for having a paycheck coming in every week. Have 3dogs and 2 cats and 4 chins to feed you know Oh and I can't forget MIKE
Ants, I gain a huge amount from surgery because of the water gain from the shock and the prednisone immediately adds five pounds with the very first pill. I am amazed and thrilled that you did not have those problems to add to the pain.WTG, with the weight loss but there are easier ways to do it. Stress also makes me GAIN. Differences.
SG/Linda
doesn't he know what a good thing he has. Let me talk to him.
Hey Everyone,
Have been lurking and can't believe everyone is still here!!!!
Nancy want is wrong with that man
Timmy hope you are doing well and thanks for the messages and pics, it was you wasn't it?
TTFN
Jetsetter90
the computer is a great idea and i do use it but when the pressure is on thats when my memory starts to let me down but yes your both right maybe start one or two a year and see maybe.
thanks gals for believing in me!
Of course we believe in you!
That's what friends do!!!
Hey, just noticed.....I'm catching up to you on post count totals!
its nice to know that I have friends that I can count on thank you.
Hey Everyone,
Have been lurking and can't believe everyone is still here!!!!
Nancy want is wrong with that man
Timmy hope you are doing well and thanks for the messages and pics, it was you wasn't it?
TTFN
Jetsetter90
Nope we aren't going out west. We are heading to Florida instead...don't get excited..we're going to Pompano but I'm trying to convince DH that we cccouuullldd go to WDW even if its for 1 day. The boys are pushing for this too. I think I might just leave him there and head up with the boys.
What happened was that I was looking at airfare one day and found $198 roundtrip for our Feb break and just grabbed it. The kids so nicely reminded me that we should have flown into or out of MCO so that we could have gotten a day or two in. Silly me didn't even check saw the fare for FLL and grabbed it.
So no disneyland but hopefully disney World.
BAD LUCK will come upon HIM and HIM ONLY
I'll let you know if it works
I was able to use my new GPS unit to take the back way home and it was wonderful. I can get lost in a small closet. 
I got a proposal, of sorts today myself. A guy at bowling told met that he had fallen in love with me at first sight. I have not heard that in a long time. I have been proposed to by many fellows on first meeting. I married two of them and I can tell you that guys who do that are troubled people hunting for someone to take care of them. Run, run, as fast as you can from the Introductory Man!!! Man, as good as you are now, I cannot imagine what you might have been like prestroke. Look around at some of the folks who run such businesses and see if you do not notice that not all of them are at the top of their game. Maybe you could work part time for someone else if that is something that interests you just to see???? I bet you would soar. 
Pooh, I do not think I could survive any more folks needing my help. That did not sound good but the honest fact is that I am plumb wore out with driving folks here and there, taking care of folks etc. On good days it is not so bad but when I feel badly it is about all I can handle taking care of Tom. All of my friends are either older and have families that ignore them or are small children and need other sort of help. I spent my little bit of ;free; time, while Tom was bowling visiting with a lady I know from a restaurant. She had been our server through the years and had even worked with our children way back when. She was awesome and her two sons worked at the same place. One was killed in a motorcycle accident and when I recently saw her I did not recognize her. I found out that she had went in to a downward spiral and started doing meth. She has gotten herself clean now and looks a whole lot better than when I last saw her. I have no idea if I helped or not as I have no experience with drugs at all. I need some friends without problems. My best friend is going blind and since I am deaf we take care of each other.
I love my GPS as it helped me find the school where my grandson played ball last night and then led me back a way that I could never have handled on my own. Yes, they won their game. They were behind when I arrived but the worm turned shortly thereafter so I am sure it is all because of ME.
I can promise you that if things are not what you want before marriage it will not get one whit better afterward. People do not change. Has he told you why he is reluctant to get married? That might not be a bad thing cause he might take it so seriously that when he does finally propose you can be assured that he is in it for the long haul. Just a thought.
SG/Linda (who has the swiss steak simmering) Off to make some bread.
When I was young I thought that marriage was a guarantee of something but I know far better now and since there is not a chance of a snowball in heck of any more children happening, sort of one names Jesus, marriage does not make sense to me anymore. Companionship without having to do the housework sounds like heaven to me. Also if HE did not want to do any giving I would be free to find someone who would, being married and having morals severely limits your dating life. Pooh, you are too kind and you do the same stuff. If you see someone in pain you help. That is what we all, mostly, do. And we should. Just why it all has to happen at the same time is a problem.
I have been married more than once myself and have a whole nother take. I love the idea of separate houses and frequent visitation.
Bread done, on to the side dishes. I move slowly nowadays so some cans will be opened. Cherry Fluff for dessert, possibly my special Oatmeal Raisin Cookies, if I feel like it. Applesause instead of oil and Splenda instead of sugar, whole wheat flour and some fiber thrown in for good measure. Tastes better than it sounds. Yum!!
SG/Linda
