Self-Esteem, Anyone?

SKJA124

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Hey! Just another curious question:
What do you do to boost your self-esteem?

Now I'm not asking this because I need a boost or anything, or I'm not asking this to suggest that anyone else needs any, I'm just curious to see how everyone keeps their self-esteem high when they talk to other people, etc.

For me, I wear my favorite shade of lip gloss, and I always have a few sarcastic comebacks handy at the back of my mind. :goodvibes

Anybody else have anything they like to do/wear, etc.?
 
My light pink lipstick. Getting compliments from my bf. :D
 
I'd like to say wearing an awesome outfit but thats 50/50. My bff and I dress in some crazy unique stuff sometimes xD
 

Laughing at myself is the best way I've found to help me feel better. I'm always falling down and today I almost did the splits in the hallway infront of everybody. (But I caught myself! After flailing my arms everywhere.) I laughed and told my friend that it figures I would fall on the first day of school. I've never been truly embarassed or felt bad about myself because I've always been able to laugh and make fun at my own situations.

Also exercise helps me get it all out and makes me feel strong.
 
My light pink lipstick. Getting compliments from my bf. :D

Haha I think that would help ;D

Laughing at myself is the best way I've found to help me feel better. I'm always falling down and today I almost did the splits in the hallway infront of everybody. (But I caught myself! After flailing my arms everywhere.) I laughed and told my friend that it figures I would fall on the first day of school. I've never been truly embarassed or felt bad about myself because I've always been able to laugh and make fun at my own situations.

Also exercise helps me get it all out and makes me feel strong.

Yeah I find that helps a lot too. I mean, I'm a total klutz, so I'm always doing something that looks stupid on a daily basis, but if you can just laugh it off, then you end up keeping your self-esteem [and your sanity.] xD

I'd like to say wearing an awesome outfit but thats 50/50. My bff and I dress in some crazy unique stuff sometimes xD

Haha I love doing that. I always love to wear bright colors like indigo. That's actually my favorite color. Somewhat like this --> :scared1: <-- See his hair? That's my fav color to wear<3
 
Haha I love doing that. I always love to wear bright colors like indigo. That's actually my favorite color. Somewhat like this --> :scared1: <-- See his hair? That's my fav color to wear<3

That's awesome xD

We do a tich of the opposite, though, in darker colors but complex things. My favorite was black and white big checkered poofy skirt, black thigh-highs with bows at the top, 5 inch patent leather heels, and a white t-shirt. Oh yeah. I got stares. It was funn.
 
I like to wear my favourite outfit, put lots of mascara on, paint my nails a pretty color, and straighten my hair. I know it sounds superficial and shallow, but it really helps me laugh at myself. It just makes me feel great about myself, too.

Another thing, talking to new people. After I make friends with a stranger, I always feel happy.
 
i have quite a few.

wearing mascara.

i also measure my waist. im pretty thin and sometimes i forget that. so measuring my waist puts things back in perspective.

trying on 50 different outfits.

singing.

sometimes i just look in the mirror until i love what i see.

and noticing guys checking me out always helps ;)
 
i have quite a few.

wearing mascara.

i also measure my waist. im pretty thin and sometimes i forget that. so measuring my waist puts things back in perspective.

trying on 50 different outfits.

singing.

sometimes i just look in the mirror until i love what i see.

and noticing guys checking me out always helps ;)


hahaha!!!
actually, sometimes I do all of those things also. :D
except change just "singing" to "singing opera" xD hahaha!
 
What I do is go text or call my boyfriend.

All I have to say is "Baby, I'm having SUCH a bad day..." He's really the only friend I have that I can talk to.

Anytime I try to talk to my othe friends all I get is "oh dang" or "that sucks". I can just never talk, or rant to them.. talking to them never really solves anything.

But if I talk to Garrett, he'll ask like a million questions, cause he knows me. He knows that when I'm upset or whatever I want to talk about it. He makes it all about me.
 
i don't really have anything .. xD
this is terrible . hahahaha
umm oh!

i feel really good about myself when i make someone laugh or when i'm with kids . i love kids , and i adore babies! they are they cutest. i love making babies laugh .
 
Going for a run or just exercising in general always boosts my self esteem.

For Me Its The Opposite.

Im Not The Sporty Type So When I Fail, I Always Feel Bad And Down!



I Used To Wear A Top That I Got From Disney But Now I Dnt Feel Comfortable In It!

So Now I Wear A Black Cardigan And I Feel Great In It, Just Try On All Your Tops And Model It See How It Looks And How You Feel.

Also New Hair Styles Can Make You Feel Good.
And Make Up!

;););)
 
Prayer and happy music.

I still have horrid self-esteem issues, but that's mainly due to my OCD. Although the two things I recommended do help me a whole lot with it.
 
Haha I don't really do much. I guess probably my Nike Dunks. They're amazingly comfortable, I like how they look, and I get a lot of compliments on them, so they're kinda a self-esteem booster?
 
running around the canal with my dogs makes me feel better
 
talking to my dog or cats, they seem to adore me :D (yes, i talk to my animals :P)
Wearing a really comfortable+cute outfit(i know, that sounds bad, but when i feel good, i have good days)
getting a hair cut.
laughing/making people laugh.
going to work with my mom(shes a pre school teacher&i love the kids,& a few of my older friedns work there)
 
talking to my dog or cats, they seem to adore me :D (yes, i talk to my animals :P)
Wearing a really comfortable+cute outfit(i know, that sounds bad, but when i feel good, i have good days)
getting a hair cut.
laughing/making people laugh.
going to work with my mom(shes a pre school teacher&i love the kids,& a few of my older friedns work there)

OMG i thought i was the only person who did that
xD
 

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