I would say you could attempt to send a PM to the person, however you will need several more posts before you can do that. For privacy reasons Dis does not make the member list available but if you build a buddy list it does auto fill the field if anything starts to match. Biggest problem, you don't know how they may have registered - you, yourself registered under a completly different title then VMK. Unless you both post and are listed on the introduction thread, you may not find each other. Even then it is not a sure thing. Welcome to dis and I caution you not to try to give to much info on vmk to help the person find you.