Hi Sandy!
I just caught up on your PJ. Your engagement and ring stories are great! I loved the way your invitations turned out too! For these small weddings it's just not worth it to order them. No one could seem to understand why I was making my invitations, but I think they turned out really well for a lot less.
And, welcome to the no one RSVPs club. As a member, I would like to forewarn you that it only gets worse. And it sucks. And people are dumb. (including my sister.) The only thing I have to say is...
RSVP FREAKS!!
Okay, I know that didn't really help. B/C I'm sure anyone who actually needs to read that never will. But it makes you feel better sometimes to post things in really big fonts. Give it a try.

(btw, i've completely cracked up, so my advice may be shoddy.)