First, I know a great realtor - they helped us get our house and we are really happy with it. We live in Altamonte Springs, near the Altamonte Mall and we are in Seminole county. My drive to Disney is quite short, about a half an hour to an hour depending on traffic. It's not a walk across the street, but we are in a fairly "urban" and non-Stepford area. I'm originally from Oak Park, Ill; the home of Frank Llyod Wright, so I'm pretty picky about my neighborhoods.
In just five blocks or so around us we have:
A very good high school (seminole county is a high rated school district.
Orange County schools are pretty bad, depending on the school)
Very good elementary and middle schools
Some great private schools, like Park-Maitland, Orange Christian, and Annunciation private school
(With regards to public schools, look for "A-rated" schools)
Several churches of all denominations, including Greek Orthodox!
Florida hospital Altamonte (3 blocks away, which was great when I was pregnant!)
Altamonte Mall
Zillions of nice restaurants (Lots of non-chain ones, which is a big plus!)
a cute little park that has a mile long track for running
A running store
A Games Workshop store (for the Warhammer gamers in your life)
A awesome independent theater that shows all sorts of revival movies (Jaws, James Bond Festivals, Independent movies - movies at night on the lawn, etc.)
An AMC movie theater
My dentist (who is my husband's high school friend!)
Plus, our house is located in a neighborhood, not a housing development, and we don't have any silly HMOs!!! Watch out for those, b/c they can really sneak up on you. Our house is also an "old" Florida house, and we have an 11 foot deep pool!!! (which is either a blessing or a curse, b/c you have to clean it

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Oh, and the local police captain lives two streets away from us, and the fire dept/police dept and city hall are 3 blocks away from us.
So, yeah, we like Altamonte.


And sinkholes cannot be predicted, they just are. But I do recommend looking at already built houses in well-established independent communities and buying them. The house is usually built more solidly, and you can always make adjustments or rehab the house. There are some lovely ones in our area, and again, the drive is not bad. Do keep in mind that no matter where you end up, I-4 traffic is ALWAYS horrible!!!
Oh, and did I mention we also have a World of Beer bar here?
