Sad news from my doctor.

[Dan Murphy]

A gentle {hug} for you, and your husband, GEM. So sorry about your loss, great it is. Having your husband and family as a strong support is so very important and comforting. And tears are very natural, and good, don't worry about them.

Hope you both are able to get away for a bit, some private, quiet time together.

{Hugs} and prayers, GEM.

 

[yepod]

So sorry for your loss, Gem

We have been thru this too & it will get less painfull in time.
I know this is a very difficult now.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} for the 2 of you.

 

[MerryPoppins]

I'm so sorry to hear your news. I thought about you all day yesterday.

Wish you and your husband could get away, but I guess the doctor is right. Let yourself be sad. You are feeling a real loss. It's okay, no matter what anyone says about there being "no baby".

We understand. Take comfort that everyone doesn't feel that way. Hug your husband and be thankful that you are together.

I'll be looking for news in the coming months that you are expecting again! What a happy day that will be. After you get through the initial worry, the next pregnancy may be even more special. You'll sure appreciate each heartbeat that you hear!

Lots of special feel-better-soon pixie dust and loads of hugs!

 

[melk]

I'm sorry

 

[CamColt]

So sorry to hear this, Gem. We are all here for you. Best of luck in your recovery and in the future. Take Care!

 

[iluvorlando]

I am soooo sorry GEM. Let yourself greive and then pick yourself up and try again. My sister did exactly like you said. She had to have a D&C, and then got pregnant as soon as she could (the month after).

((((Hugs)))) for you and your DH.

 

[6_Time_Momma]

Oh, I am so, so sorry!! {HUGS}

 

[BrerMom]

It's ok to cry. Grieving is a necessary part of recovering.

 

[gemmie214]

I am so sorry Gem {{HUGS}}

 

[lynetteSC]

No words to make this situation better ...

I am very glad that you have a WONDERFUL supportive dh through all this ... it makes a HUGE difference to have a GREAT support system.

I can't believe what your dr said ... we too had a nurse that said something similar to us ... you would think that the medical personnel would know what to say and what NOT to say ...

Good Luck to you ... know that you are in alot of prayers now!

Hopefully, you can get away soon to find some time together.
Lots of hugs!

 

[Zurg]

 

[Tuffcookie]

Dear GEM, It's perfectly fine to acknowledge your feelings. Also know that until your hormone levels are back to what they were before, there is a physical reason for your emotional upheaval. HUGS to you...

TC

 

[meeshi]

Oh, GEM, I am so sorry. (((((HUGS)))))

 

[Mskanga]

GEM, I am so very sorry , I guess it wasn't meant to be this time but let me tell you that I know a lot of people who misscarry or have the same problem you did and then later they have babies without a problem , so please do not loose hope. I know one baby doesn't replace another but what I am saying is that there's hope, I hope my words are not missinterpreted.
{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}} to both of you and keep your chin up, you did not let anyone down, you are very brave for sharing this with us , I know you are hurting now , I personally don't think I could deal with it they way you are by talking to us.

Olga

 

[Mark P.]

Sorry to hear of your loss

 

[Mamu]

I am so sorry, you will be in my thoughts and prayers. {{{HUGS}}}

 

[tc]

I am so sorry you've had to go through this. You should expect to go through the same greiving process as if you held that precious baby in your arms. Your heart is acheing just the same.

{{{{HUGS}}}} and pd to you, and prayers that your hearts stops acheing soon.

 

[Boots]

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} I am so very sorry to hear this. I was afraid of this when you did your first post. I am here if you ever need to PM or email me. You are part of my DIS family!

 

[ripleysmom]

I am so sorry GEM!!

 

[Kitty 34]

I'm so sorry Gem. {{{{HUGS}}}}