Sad.....I miss my Mom.....

[Kitty 34]

 

[Mishetta]

I had the first dream about my Mom a couple weeks ago. It was soooo nice to see her again & hear her voice but then when I woke up, I cried & cried & cried because it made me miss her even more.

 

[cruiserkaren]

 

[mommy22gurlz]

My mom will be gone 10 years this September, she passed when I was 21. I know it is hard to believe now but it does get easier to bear in time. You will always miss her and anything and everything that is important happening in your life you will have this "urge" to talk to her. I can still remember my mom's voice like it was just yesterday though.

 

[ChrisnSteph]

I remember months after my son had died, I would wake up in the middle of the night and want to walk in his room and check on him - I even got to the door sometimes. It seems like it took a really long time for reality to set in that he would never again be behind that door. Just recently I received an appointment reminder postcard from my son Ryan's doctor's office. I guess they forgot that he passed away almost a year ago. It's like a slap upside the head that life has gone one like normal for everyone, without my son(s) in it. Anyhow, I feel your hurt. I hope that as time goes on, the hurt will fade and you'll be able to smile with happy memories of your mother.

 

[Freyja]

I´m so sorry for your loss. My mother died almost 4 years ago when I was 24 (she was 50). You´re right, it sucks!!!

The hurt does get easier over time although I believe I miss her more with every year that passes. It´s just not as raw anymore.

I hope you have someone to hold you and give you support during this horrible time.

My thoughts are with you.

 

[disfanatiks]

I know how you feel. My Mother had an arrythmia last June 12, which brought on fainting followed by sudden cardiac arrest. She died 19 days later after never waking up. She was only 61. She was to have gone on vacation with us to Disney 4 days after it happened.

The sadness sometimes is unbearable. Our family is still in shock from the loss. The time has made my Dad worse not better. My DD was my parent's only grandchild and my daughter was so close to my Mom. She had a hard time last year on her birthday. It was so sad.

A few weekends ago, we had a really nice weekend...but the funny thing was at the end of the weekend my DH, DD and I were all thinking about my Mom. I saw a calendar in someone's office today and it said, "Don't cry because it's over, Smile because it happened." I almost burst into tears.

I am thinking of you and also of others who posted here.

 

[MsDisney23]