I'm sorry I don't meet your standards for indignation and righteousness.
To me, hate is hate. Namecalling is namecalling. None of it is okay to me, and I sincerely try not to be selective in how I judge it.
Really? I definitely try to use some judgement when dealing with namecalling. I have kids. I try very hard to teach them not to call anyone any names at all. But their punishment would be *far* more severe if the name they called a classmate was particularly offensive or racist or preying on a person's vulnerabilities rather than if they called someone "booger breath" as my 6 year old called her brother yesterday.