Bee,
We are on first seating, but we also have a 18 month old, so that is the preference for us. I prefer the first night to be in Animators. That puts us in the right rotation (Formal night in Lumiere's, etc) for the theme nights.
As for cruise docs, nothing here either. I was thinking it might take longer on the west coast, or Momtoemma got hers early since she is out of the US. Our TA isn't admitting to seeing them yet, and they are usually very responsive.
-t