Hands down, there are two places to go for your anniversary on property: Spoodles or Cinderella's Royal Table. At the former, they make a big fuss, the food is okay from what I have heard, and usually give you etched wine glasses as a gift. At Spoodles, my parents were spoiled rotten for hours including being sung to, receiving special treatment from the manager herself including a white chocolate Mickey head that said "Happy Anniversary" and two wedding pins. They recommend this place above all other Disney restaurants. The food was also just wonderful.