Universal's Fan Club (which operates the same way as the old MKC, free through employers) often offers excellent rates on hotels. We recently stayed at HR for $120.
I'm not going to give up on Disney or stop going to Disney parks. I still enjoy being at Disney, and I still think that Disney parks are the best all-around theme park experience. (I have switched over to only staying at S/D when onsite, however, because Starwood offers me very nice loyalty rewards.)
The management of and rewards from Universal's loyalty programs have improved in the last few years, while Disney has decided to marginalize and all but eliminate loyalty programs. Therefore, since I like being treated well for my dollar, I've simply been spending a larger share of that dollar at Universal than I did previously.
I do still own a fair amount of Disney stock, and I've been quite vocal about what I see as the company's failure in this regard. Loyalty programs drive a lot of purchases, including my own. Once the DC is gone, I sincerely doubt I will ever again set foot inside TDS, or whatever its successor might be.