Oh, boy! I can relate to that! DH is the same way. Every trip we go on, he brings along a little fan he bought at wal-mart. It fits in even our little 19" suitcase for overnight use. It's very small, desk size I think, or smaller. He started using that instead of a big fan in winter, so that is now the noise he is used to, and it works perfectly for him on trips. Maybe your wife can try that, too? We stayed at AKL a couple of years ago, and I've never heard of them offering fans. Good Luck!
Lori