Registering child in another school district...here's a question

[castleview]

Thanks for all the responses everyone! I have to figure this out now so I can make some kind of arragements when the time comes. Our school districts ALSO requires a deed/lease, utility bill or other proof of address for the parent. However, I'm wondering if there is a way (given my specific situation) that I could still allow her to go to the school. I will try to call and investigate.

I'm not sure that will work because you are far from the only person in this situation. I see plenty of grandparents at my kids' school dropping off or picking up kids - in these cases, it's the grandparents picking up the kids at the kid's designated school. Good luck though - if this doesn't work, there are hopefully other options.

 

[tazdev3225]

Here in Philly you have to go to the school that your street belongs to. Each elementary school has an area that encompasses X amount of streets. I live in the area with one of the best schools and my kids CANNOT use my address even thought I watch them full time while my kids work. My son lives on the wrong side of the cutoff street and his son has to go to a different school. There was even a protest by parents a few years ago because kids who lived on the same street as the middle school had to go to a school a mile away because of the way the areas were set up.

 

[jfoofj]

I know someone who is doing this right now.... her and her husband split up and she moved to an apartment in a neighboring town (her husband moved a few towns away, they let the house foreclose) but told the school she is living w/ her mother in the same town she was previously living in. I understand not wanting her kids to change school, especially with dealing with a divorce and moving, but I'm not a big fan of her telling her kids not to tell the other kids they actually live in a different town (which is what she said she did). What happens when they want to have friend over? She is teaching them to lie. Oh, and her mom's house is within walking distance so they just walk there after school... she drives them in the morning. I'm sure the school wouldn't be too happy to find out, though, one of her kids is special needs and is on an IEP and I know that the schools spend a lot of money to meet the needs of these kids.... I don't know...... I keep my mouth shut....... I figure she has dealt with enough recently and it will eventually catch up to her.

 

[2girlsmom]

Here we have 2 districts inside the same city, when my kids started school I open enrolled them to the main district (we lived in the outlying district, but my mother was my daycare too), they had some forms to fill out to do it, apparently that way the school that they attend got the federal funds for them instead of the "home district". We have since moved into the main district area so no longer an issue.

 

[tonilea]

Our son goes to an out of district school. It wasn't any big deal. We have to drive him about 15 miles (one way). We live about four miles from a great school in Missouri. Our neighbors wanted to send their daughter there, so they purchased a home there and the husband lives in it enough to meet the residency requirements. In the long run, it was cheaper than paying out of state tuition.

 

[Disneyland_Mama]

I am planning to enroll my daughter in PreK next year. The school I would like is PreK- 5th grade. However we do not live in the neighborhood of the school. My parents live across the street of the school in question and are my daughter's primary caregiver when I am at work during the day. What are the chances of me getting her into that school?

Both my children go to an out of district school. I had to fill out an Intradistrict Transfer request, that had to be approved by our actual district and then as long as there is room in our school of choice, they were approved. Kids with day-care issues were priority. Luckily all cards were in our favor, and they both were approved.

I'd advise you to call the school of your choice and ask them their policies and procedures.

 

[Keli]

I am not certain if anything has changed in the last few years here but when my dd was in school it was fairly easy to go to another school in the neighboring districts. But you did have to pay a tuition. They didn't require any proof of where you lived when my dd was in school but that may have changed.

 

[okeydokey]

Thanks for all the responses everyone! I have to figure this out now so I can make some kind of arragements when the time comes. Our school districts ALSO requires a deed/lease, utility bill or other proof of address for the parent. However, I'm wondering if there is a way (given my specific situation) that I could still allow her to go to the school. I will try to call and investigate.

You can only ask and see what they say. Every area is different. In mine if I provide transportation and a good reason, they'll allow it.

 

[LBAK]

If you are on Long Island it is very doubtful that the district will allow this. Many LI districts are now having families re-register every 2 years to make sure they live within the district. Many schools ask for deeds and mortgage bills, utility bills and some a bank statement all with matching addresses. It has become a big problem with children entering the district because it's easier for parents for child care. Check with your elementary school, a lot have before and after school programs for nominal fees.

 

[minkydog]

Here you have to show proof of residency and utility bills. They will throw the kid out if they find out.

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This is exactly what happens in my district. You can roll the dice and you might fool them for awhile. But the HOUR they find out, you're busted. They pull your kid out of class and call you for pick up. They will not put your kid on the bus, either. Someone has to pick them up. The child is relieved of his books and supplies belonging to the school and is not allowed back on campus.

You know what trips up the most parents? The kid gets sick and the parents can't be found, so the Social Worker has to go out to the address and knock on the door. When the owner comes to the door and has no knowlege of the family--Busted! Of course, the SW does a little research,but it doesn't take long and most parents just cave when confronted with the Social Worker(I don't know why--she's very nice.) If their "new address" doesn't match up with our district the child is immediately withdrawn from school.

 

[golfgal]

We have open enrollment here - which means you can go to any school you want. If I wanted my kid to go to a school on the other side of the cities - he could!

It's worth a shot asking!

This is what is so nice about our schools--you still have to apply and it isn't a given you get in but 99% of the time you do.


OP, when you ask about this make sure they understand that she will be doing DAY CARE there, not that your parents live there (I wouldn't even mention who does the day care). Some schools, even if they don't allow non-residents, will make exceptions for day care situations.

 

[rigs32]

Just don't lie to the school district. It's a felony in NY.

 

[MM27]

In the district where I work, they make the parents register every year. They require state issued picture ID of the parent, a rent/lease agreement and a recent utility bill. If a child does slip through the cracks and they are found, the district goes after the parents for payment. We have two residency officers that go around to make sure people are living where they say they are.

 

[Lisa loves Pooh]

In our county in Florida (and when I lived in PA, SC, and LA), the school you attended was based on your actual residents. No using relatives for any reason (unless you actually live with them.)

 

[freckles and boo]

Every single year we have to provide proof of residency. They ask for multiple pieces of "evidence" including utility bills and mortgage statements/lease agreements. For us it is a big deal because we are geographically a very small suburb and are surrounded by the city of Chicago on three sides. If they weren't vigilant we would have a big problem with overcrowding. As it is our elementary schools are stretched to their limits.

The first time you register it is even more rigid.

REGISTRATION INFORMATON

To register your child/ren in XXXXXX you will need to acquire a Registration Packet. Please return all yellow, orange and white affidavits forms with the following proofs of residency:

1. A current photo ID with name and address of parent/ guardian/custodian:
(i.e. Drivers License, State ID, or Passport)

2. If you own your home, bring in your mortgage papers or a current homeowners insurance policy. If you are renting, you will need to bring in a current signed lease and a certificate of inspection from the Village.

3. Two additional items of identification demonstrating proof of residency are also required: i.e. current monthly utility bills, automobile insurance policy, car registration, or public aid card.

4. Your child’s original birth certificate.

5. Your child’s social security number.

If you do not own or rent and are living with a resident of XXXXXXX, you, and the person you are living with, will need to complete additional forms. Please inform us if this applies to you.

 

[disney1990]

I am planning to enroll my daughter in PreK next year. The school I would like is PreK- 5th grade. However we do not live in the neighborhood of the school. My parents live across the street of the school in question and are my daughter's primary caregiver when I am at work during the day. What are the chances of me getting her into that school?

Since your daughter is still young enough to have a child care provider, in my area, you could tell them that your parents provide her before and after school care -- if they do? It's totally allowed in the county that I live in, in Maryland

 

[quentina]

Why can't you say you live with your parents? It happens all the time around here...

 

[JVL1018]

Thanks for all the responses everyone! I have to figure this out now so I can make some kind of arragements when the time comes. Our school districts ALSO requires a deed/lease, utility bill or other proof of address for the parent. However, I'm wondering if there is a way (given my specific situation) that I could still allow her to go to the school. I will try to call and investigate.

My daughter had a boy in her K class in the same situation-Grandma watched him, she lived in town, parents did not. He was booted out of school a month into the K year when they found out.

 

[FinallyBoughtDVC]

If I remember correctly, you're a Long Islander...chances are probably really slim that you would get away with it.

Our school has Pre-K - 5 and they are really strict for just this reason. This is from our school website:

Required Proof of Residency Documents
Two Current Utility Bills
(Cable, electric, gas, or
land-based telephone bill)

Homeowners (one of the following)
Tax Bill
Contract
Closing Papers or Deed

Renters
Current Lease (for at least one year)

Other Required Documents
Childs Birth Certificate or Passport
Parent/Guardians Drivers License.


Personally, I think it's idiotic if there's a grandparent involved who is paying school taxes and will be caring for the child before and after school. It's not like they're squatters - they're paying!

But, you don't want to take a chance and get caught and then get stuck with a bill. Currently, our school district is charging over $25,000 a year for non-resident tuition (if there's even room). If you're caught, they can sue you for that.

There are so many great Pre-K programs on Long Island - some of them are so affordable. Sign up now! Spaces fill up really quickly. Good luck!

 

[daisyduck123]

Since your daughter is still young enough to have a child care provider, in my area, you could tell them that your parents provide her before and after school care -- if they do? It's totally allowed in the county that I live in, in Maryland

In A.A. County in Maryland (I teach here), admission will be approved if there is space at the school. If the school is "at capacity" or "over capacity", you will not be approved...no matter who the daycare provider is.